10 things I’m thankful for today: 10-10-10 at 10:10 AM

A simple enough pleasure, surely, to have breakfast alone with one’s husband, but how seldom married people in the midst of life achieve it. – Anne Morrow Lindbergh

It is a blessed Sunday morning as I take breakfast with my husband. These days, I don’t read newspapers unless I want to collect that issue, Our netbooks are with us as we sip our coffee. This time around, I am taking warm calamansi-lemon drink to soothe my sore throat. It is an old folks home remedy that always works.

calamansi-juiceThe house seems quieter without my other daughter’s booming voice at home. (I will write about this more). Lauren is fast asleep so it is just Butch and me. I am just grateful about today. The quiet moments with my husband at breakfast. Gazing at the two Siamese kitties lounging nearby makes me smile. I think I will be bonding more with my pet cat Missy.

I believe that happiness depends on a leisurely breakfast even if it is just once a week on a Sunday.

Andy Rooney best explains this bit of happiness.

For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing your work and sitting down to a meal with family or friends, then the chances are you’re not going to be very happy. If someone bases his happiness or unhappiness on major events like a great new job, huge amounts of money, a flawlessly happy marriage or a trip to Paris, that person isn’t going to be happy much of the time. If, on the other hand, happiness depends on a good breakfast, flowers in the yard, a drink or a nap, then we are more likely to live with quite a bit of happiness.

Today is something special too. It is 10-10-10 and this entry will be published at 10:10 in the morning. ““The row of ‘perfect tens’ symbolises not just a once in a 100 years quirk of the calendar, but a ‘powerful moment of rebirth'” according to a Delhi-based numbers expert. The number 10 contains powerful properties – made all the more potent by repetition. Sonia Dulce, a numerologist says that ““Ten is the number for wisdom, because it contains the essence of all the numbers of one to nine within it”. She added ““And the number one, which features three times in [the] date, is all about focus, new direction, raw energy and rebirth.”

The number ten gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling because I have 10 reasons to be thankful for:

1. I am thankful for second chances and a new normal.

2. I am thankful for the laughter that rings true in my home. There’s nothing like a family who laughs together.

3. I am thankful for financial challenges because it taught us discipline that money can be budgeted wisely for basic necessities.

4. I am thankful for a loving husband that never gave up on me.

5. I am thankful for the pain brought about by my son’s death because it transformed me into a more compassionate person.

6. I am thankful for my two girls, that despite the turbulent teen years due to their sibling’s death, they never resorted to drugs or alcohol. They are smart and down-to-earth girls.

7. I am thankful of new and old friendships ,a comfortable place to be myself.

8. I am thankful for negative feedback as I can make an honest assessment of myself without jeopardizing my identity.

9. I am thankful for the internet, blogging and all of YOU, the lurkers and readers of my blog as you help me fulfill my mission in life.

10. I am thankful to God who I thought abandoned me but never really left me after all.

I have a lot to be thankful for today and everyday of my life.

What does 10/10/10 mean for you?

Noemi Lardizabal-Dado (1346 Posts)

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.


About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.

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  • http://www.yapatoots.com/ ria

    a few minutes ago, I was in the bathroom and I thought to myself that maybe I should rekindle my daily gratitude journal posts. then i sat back in front of my pc and saw your post about what you are thankful for…i suppose thats a sign, huh? maybe i should just do that…. 🙂 inspired by your post I will take the time to think about what i am grateful for today…and maybe set a deadline of 10:10 pm? hehe.

    one thing i know i am grateful for, for sure, is the fact that i discovered the blogging community which allowed me to meet such wonderful people, you included 🙂

    happy sunday, noemi. and i wish you well as you continue inspiring others despite your own twists and turns on the way.
    .-= ria´s last blog ..On Plans- Changes- Growth and Progress =-.

    • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

      oh wow, Ria but we all know how things interplay together. In fact, when I wrote this post, I was just thinking of breakfast and happiness. Then my post evolved to 10 things to be grateful for today. Life works in mysterious ways. Now go for it…write those 10 things too.

      • http://www.fatgirlnomore.com/ ria

        i took your challenge and found so many things to be grateful for…but more than anything, i find that being grateful allows me to open up my heart to so much more 🙂 thank you for the reminder, noemi 🙂
        .-= ria´s last blog ..Ten Things I am Grateful for on 101010 at 10-10 PM =-.

        • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

          Listing 10 things to be grateful about is very liberating. Thanks for sharing yours.

  • http://teacherjulie.com Julie

    Thank you too, for the gift of friendship and the inspiration to be a better person despite the odds we all face as moms 🙂
    .-= Julie´s last blog ..Discerning Mommies UNILAB Amherst Plant Tour =-.

  • http://everydaysweetnotes.blogspot.com Smarla

    This is a great post and a good way to start the day 🙂 Thanks for this post and have a great 10-10-10!

    By the way, there’s a project called One Day On Earth – it’s all about documenting the world’s story on this 10-10-10 day. Here’s the link: http://www.onedayonearth.org/
    You might be interested 🙂
    .-= Smarla´s last blog ..A Conspiracy Night with Noel Cabangon- This Song is for you RJ – =-.

  • mark

    I really don’t know how to say it, but reading about you makes everything that is wrong with my life even more glaring. Sometimes I wonder why I’m still married when it’s obvious that everything is a lie.

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

    it is probably your first visit in my blog. But if you had been following me for the past 4 years, you would have read how I gave second chances to my husband and the pain we went through to get where we are right now.