Comments on: The Secret to Staying Together http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/ Parenting, Health, Wellness & Family Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:51:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: noemi http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-323 noemi Sat, 29 Apr 2006 12:43:57 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-323 Ajay: I cannot judge other couples. Each couple have different circumstances and your choices were based on what you felt was best for both of you. Techguy: I like Chat's Filipina looks. She has beautiful long hair. We're on our 21st year of marraige. Solving problems is one way of not building up resentments. I learned the hard way of just keeping things to myself until it blew up on my face. I've learned to talk things out right away. It took a lot of practice to change my old ways. Ajay: I cannot judge other couples. Each couple have different circumstances and your choices were based on what you felt was best for both of you.

Techguy: I like Chat’s Filipina looks. She has beautiful long hair. We’re on our 21st year of marraige. Solving problems is one way of not building up resentments. I learned the hard way of just keeping things to myself until it blew up on my face. I’ve learned to talk things out right away. It took a lot of practice to change my old ways.

]]> By: techguy http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-322 techguy Sat, 29 Apr 2006 11:49:00 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-322 nakakalungkot, Chat is one fave actress, his Dad too, Vic, Chat,as i looked at her, yong mukhang nya ay lalong gumaganda habang tinitingnan mo, she won the BB Pilipnas, right, and i think she is a finalist in the international pageant, BTW, kami ng ex-gf(misis ko na ngayon...hehehe)22 yrs ng kasal...my one and only misis...sabi nila playboy daw ang mga taga PLDT(work for them for 17 yrs) pero i am 100% i am not one of them dumila man ako sa burning charcoal...it took me 4 years to realize na dapat na mahalin ko pa la sya at pakasalan...not beacause she is inheriting hectares of land of coconut plantation in San Pablo...just because i love her for bitter or for worse...hahaha..our secret in staying together...we do not let our problems or dis-agreement to last another...day ...we just solve it ...before we sleep...our product...hehehe.. five boys...still hoping for a lovely daughter...syensiya ka na..napahaba yata... nakakalungkot, Chat is one fave actress, his Dad too, Vic, Chat,as i looked at her, yong mukhang nya ay lalong gumaganda habang tinitingnan mo, she won the BB Pilipnas, right, and i think she is a finalist in the international pageant, BTW, kami ng ex-gf(misis ko na ngayon…hehehe)22 yrs ng kasal…my one and only misis…sabi nila playboy daw ang mga taga PLDT(work for them for 17 yrs) pero i am 100% i am not one of them dumila man ako sa burning charcoal…it took me 4 years to realize na dapat na mahalin ko pa la sya at pakasalan…not beacause she is inheriting hectares of land of coconut plantation in San Pablo…just because i love her for bitter or for worse…hahaha..our secret in staying together…we do not let our problems or dis-agreement to last another…day …we just solve it …before we sleep…our product…hehehe.. five boys…still hoping for a lovely daughter…syensiya ka na..napahaba yata…

]]> By: ajay http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-320 ajay Sat, 29 Apr 2006 11:18:54 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-320 Nice article. This is from somebody who is once again single and went through a traumatic marriage once. I admire people like you who have the will to go through all the ups and downs. Well I guess it takes two to tango. It was my choice to be like this and I have to take full responsibility now Nice article. This is from somebody who is once again single and went through a traumatic marriage once. I admire people like you who have the will to go through all the ups and downs. Well I guess it takes two to tango. It was my choice to be like this and I have to take full responsibility now

]]> By: noemi http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-319 noemi Sat, 29 Apr 2006 03:45:33 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-319 Abbie: That's a long time! My husband I were steadies for 7 years . At that time, I had no idea about relationships or that we had to work on it. Recent materials have been geared on helping couples. Through the years, we change so we need to adapt and compromise. That's what the work is all about. Abbie: That’s a long time! My husband I were steadies for 7 years . At that time, I had no idea about relationships or that we had to work on it. Recent materials have been geared on helping couples. Through the years, we change so we need to adapt and compromise. That’s what the work is all about.

]]> By: abbie http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-318 abbie Sat, 29 Apr 2006 01:34:32 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-318 My boyfriend and I are not yet married but we are now going on our 6th year this 23rd of October. While I was reading Chat Silayan's article and its much like we were doing that's why we've been together this long. I just couldn't help but smile. Thanks for the advice. My boyfriend and I are not yet married but we are now going on our 6th year this 23rd of October. While I was reading Chat Silayan’s article and its much like we were doing that’s why we’ve been together this long. I just couldn’t help but smile. Thanks for the advice.

]]> By: noemi http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-317 noemi Sat, 29 Apr 2006 00:45:22 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-317 Hi Rose. well, things are working out. Coincidentally, it's going to be our 21st anniversary on May 5 . Hi Rose. well, things are working out. Coincidentally, it’s going to be our 21st anniversary on May 5 .

]]> By: Rose DesRochers http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-to-staying-together/#comment-316 Rose DesRochers Fri, 28 Apr 2006 17:53:37 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2006/04/28/the-secret-of-staying-together/#comment-316 I just celebrated 17 years. Marriage is hard work. I hope things work out for you both. I just celebrated 17 years. Marriage is hard work. I hope things work out for you both.

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