Comments on: When Kids Hear Their Parents having Sex http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/ Parenting, Health, Wellness & Family Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:53:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: fmdyo http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-271537 fmdyo Fri, 29 Aug 2008 20:42:01 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-271537 ew, ive walked in on em once. but i was like 8, and ever since i walked in on em i'd always be paranoid. and ive heard them a few times..sick, i feel disscusted. but i guess ive gotten over it. i just turn on up the tv really loud ! ew, ive walked in on em once.
but i was like 8, and ever since i walked in on em i’d always be paranoid.
and ive heard them a few times..sick, i feel disscusted.
but i guess ive gotten over it. i just turn on up the tv really loud !

]]> By: Biz http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-271491 Biz Mon, 25 Aug 2008 19:57:05 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-271491 Always brings back memories for me, when I was about 12 I cound never understand all the noises comming from my parents room, it used to wake me up many times, some times I thought my father was really hurting my mother she made so much noise. I even started to notice them going upsairs in the afternoon for 'a liitle lie down' mother always used to turn the tv up before going upstairs which always baffled me! One day the bed was squeaking so lound one afternoon that I wentt upstairs to investigate, big mistake by me, saw parents naked on bed, father on top of mother with his head down, he didn't see me and caried on, mother did but couldn't stop him straight away so I saw everything, totally puzzled by now until mother shouted "GET OUT" I ran downstairs and was followed by mother in her gown, well I was told the facts of life there and then by mum, talk about being embarrassed and even worse she even went back upstairs and the noises started all over again so I got the theory and the practical at the same time!I was a shy 12 year old and could not look my parents in the face for months on end, it also started my life of masturbation the very next night and I eagerly awaited night times so I could indulge my habit, indeed I used to be very, very dissapointed if there was no sex going on during the night! Grew out of it eventually to the point where I found it gross in the exreame, guess my parents were just highly sexed! Always brings back memories for me, when I was about 12 I cound never understand all the noises comming from my parents room, it used to wake me up many times, some times I thought my father was really hurting my mother she made so much noise. I even started to notice them going upsairs in the afternoon for ‘a liitle lie down’ mother always used to turn the tv up before going upstairs which always baffled me! One day the bed was squeaking so lound one afternoon that I wentt upstairs to investigate, big mistake by me, saw parents naked on bed, father on top of mother with his head down, he didn’t see me and caried on, mother did but couldn’t stop him straight away so I saw everything, totally puzzled by now until mother shouted “GET OUT” I ran downstairs and was followed by mother in her gown, well I was told the facts of life there and then by mum, talk about being embarrassed and even worse she even went back upstairs and the noises started all over again so I got the theory and the practical at the same time!I was a shy 12 year old and could not look my parents in the face for months on end, it also started my life of masturbation the very next night and I eagerly awaited night times so I could indulge my habit, indeed I used to be very, very dissapointed if there was no sex going on during the night! Grew out of it eventually to the point where I found it gross in the exreame, guess my parents were just highly sexed!

]]> By: wtf http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-257019 wtf Fri, 25 Jul 2008 01:15:44 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-257019 um... ur only 15 holly and u had sex thats fucked man ur so stupid u shouldnt have sex when ur 15 ..and now ur telling other ppl to do it too...thats messed...and tell me is the guy u had sex with still with u ? let me guess not...ur gonna go to hell um… ur only 15 holly and u had sex thats fucked man ur so stupid u shouldnt have sex when ur 15 ..and now ur telling other ppl to do it too…thats messed…and tell me is the guy u had sex with still with u ? let me guess not…ur gonna go to hell

]]> By: Nessa http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-257015 Nessa Fri, 25 Jul 2008 01:12:32 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-257015 One time i was about 8...or 7 i think and back then i did kina no what sex was but i dont even remember how i new what it was..and now im 13..but anways i was going to my freinds house withc was like across the street and i whent there i was gonna stay for the night but then around 1 hour later i 4got to bring my toothbrush and i just ran back home to get it i came in the house and started calling my mom and she wouldnt reply do i got scared cuz the door was open so she couldnt have gone anywhere then i was like whatever ill just go get my toothbrush,key to lock the door when i got upstairs to my room witch is night next to mine i saw across the hallway my mom and step dad(EWW) having sex and it was so gross and then i was like yelling at my mom i was like MOMMM WHY ARE u screaming(lol) and then i just went and sat on the bed and taked for like 15 mins to prevent them to start again when i left ..then they broke up and my mom found this new guy witch they got married together for 5 years now but i always hear then have sex all the time its so gross...but really i think perants just..shouldnt have *loud* sex like be quit cuz when ur loud this is kinda weird but the kids wanna no more about it and like.. u wanna have sex faster then ur sapose to like when ur just a teen so perants DONT HAVE SEX IF UR KIDS OUR HOME JEEZ! One time i was about 8…or 7 i think and back then i did kina no what sex was but i dont even remember how i new what it was..and now im 13..but anways

i was going to my freinds house withc was like across the street and i whent there i was gonna stay for the night but then around 1 hour later i 4got to bring my toothbrush and i just ran back home to get it i came in the house and started calling my mom and she wouldnt reply do i got scared cuz the door was open so she couldnt have gone anywhere then i was like whatever ill just go get my toothbrush,key to lock the door when i got upstairs to my room witch is night next to mine i saw across the hallway my mom and step dad(EWW) having sex and it was so gross and then i was like yelling at my mom i was like MOMMM WHY ARE u screaming(lol) and then i just went and sat on the bed and taked for like 15 mins to prevent them to start again when i left ..then they broke up and my mom found this new guy witch they got married together for 5 years now but i always hear then have sex all the time its so gross…but really i think perants just..shouldnt have *loud* sex like be quit cuz when ur loud this is kinda weird but the kids wanna no more about it and like.. u wanna have sex faster then ur sapose to like when ur just a teen so perants DONT HAVE SEX IF UR KIDS OUR HOME JEEZ!

]]> By: holly http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-253973 holly Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:13:05 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-253973 im 15, i hear my mum and dad every night every night i canot sleep because of this i have had sex befor and it is the best thig ever but i dont want my um and dad to do it i have also found toys and lube in there bedroom i one walked in the just looked at me and then my mum kept blowing i will never regret them for runing my childhood sdex is the best fealing try it if u havent but where a condom im 15, i hear my mum and dad every night
every night i canot sleep because of this i have had sex befor and it is the best thig ever but i dont want my um and dad to do it
i have also found toys and lube in there bedroom
i one walked in the just looked at me and then my mum kept blowing i will never regret them for runing my childhood
sdex is the best fealing try it if u havent but where a condom

]]> By: John http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-243126 John Sat, 28 Jun 2008 01:50:03 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-243126 Ladies, your parents are human beings. Their having sex co-created you with God.. Did your mom ever talk about sex with you? Andrea, I'm glad you are concerned about your own well being. For the well being of your marriage, please discuss this with your husband and see a marriage therapist together. I think there is more going on here than just hearing your parents have sex which is evidenced by shutting down sexually after visiting at home. Ladies, your parents are human beings. Their having sex co-created you with God.. Did your mom ever talk about sex with you? Andrea, I’m glad you are concerned about your own well being. For the well being of your marriage, please discuss this with your husband and see a marriage therapist together. I think there is more going on here than just hearing your parents have sex which is evidenced by shutting down sexually after visiting at home.

]]> By: Andrea http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-228951 Andrea Tue, 03 Jun 2008 03:45:40 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-228951 I am 24 years old and I have heard my parents have sex many a times. I recently got married and our sex life is suffering because I cannot get the mental picture out of my mind that I am doing the exact same thing my parents did. I have been to therapy over this, I have even gone to church, I've not said one word to my husband about it though. What is a girl to do??? I never thought my sex life as a married woman would suffer because I heard my parents have sex. And when I don't have the episodes and we do have sex, then I'm ok until the next time we visit my parents. And then when we go over to their house to visit, in the back of my mind I know that my parents know we're a married couple and we have an active life. And then when my husband and I go back home, he wants to make love and I am sooooooooo not in the mood. Parents: You guys HAVE NO IDEA what it does to a kid when they hear you have sex. You guys have got to be careful. It sucks and it's disgusting and it's crude. Don't let your kids end up like me! The only reason I came across this forum is because I am thoroughly concerned for my own well being. And this post actually helped me to cope a little bit about what I had experienced as a child. Thank you!! I am 24 years old and I have heard my parents have sex many a times. I recently got married and our sex life is suffering because I cannot get the mental picture out of my mind that I am doing the exact same thing my parents did. I have been to therapy over this, I have even gone to church, I’ve not said one word to my husband about it though. What is a girl to do??? I never thought my sex life as a married woman would suffer because I heard my parents have sex. And when I don’t have the episodes and we do have sex, then I’m ok until the next time we visit my parents. And then when we go over to their house to visit, in the back of my mind I know that my parents know we’re a married couple and we have an active life. And then when my husband and I go back home, he wants to make love and I am sooooooooo not in the mood. Parents: You guys HAVE NO IDEA what it does to a kid when they hear you have sex. You guys have got to be careful. It sucks and it’s disgusting and it’s crude. Don’t let your kids end up like me! The only reason I came across this forum is because I am thoroughly concerned for my own well being. And this post actually helped me to cope a little bit about what I had experienced as a child. Thank you!!

]]> By: Morgan http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-180940 Morgan Wed, 19 Mar 2008 03:29:59 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-180940 omg i can totally hear my parents having sex in the next room its so NASTY i just want to peel my ears off at first i thought my dad was hurting my mom b/c i couldn't really tell of she was crying or what so i almost walked in until a realized that they were do'in the do i quietly went back to my room and acted as if i heard nothing the next morning i was trying so hard to avoid my parentsit was so weird but they didn't know that i heard them it was gross its sweet that after all these years people can still have the hots for each other but when its your own parents its just creepy omg i can totally hear my parents having sex in the next room its so NASTY i just want to peel my ears off at first i thought my dad was hurting my mom b/c i couldn’t really tell of she was crying or what so i almost walked in until a realized that they were do’in the do i quietly went back to my room and acted as if i heard nothing the next morning i was trying so hard to avoid my parentsit was so weird but they didn’t know that i heard them it was gross
its sweet that after all these years people can still have the hots for each other but when its your own parents its just creepy

]]> By: John http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-180279 John Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:32:28 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-180279 My wife and I are sure that our oldest teenage son must hear us because our room is right next to his. Neither he nor our younger teenage son complain like some of the posts here do. At home and on vacations in timeshares, we don't feel like we have to hide our sex toys, special lotions, or glow in the dark bubble bath. It is no big deal to us that our boys know that married people in their 50ties still enjoy doing it. They did walk in on us when they were little, but we have made sure to lock the door since then. My wife and I are sure that our oldest teenage son must hear us because our room is right next to his. Neither he nor our younger teenage son complain like some of the posts here do. At home and on vacations in timeshares, we don’t feel like we have to hide our sex toys, special lotions, or glow in the dark bubble bath. It is no big deal to us that our boys know that married people in their 50ties still enjoy doing it. They did walk in on us when they were little, but we have made sure to lock the door since then.

]]> By: rodaflip http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-175852 rodaflip Thu, 06 Mar 2008 04:52:44 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/04/15/when-kids-hear-their-parents-having-sex/#comment-175852 It's common that sex is always taboo in the filipino family. Its the kind of upbringing that we had from the spanish times but gradually up to the present sex is already an open topic but still not within the family. I would say there is still conservatism in the filipino family in general especially in the Philippines but there are other filipino families outside of the country where probably its more liberal but i would still think its not many. Just an opinion from rodaflip http://flipantasticweb.blogspot.com It’s common that sex is always taboo in the filipino family. Its the kind of upbringing that we had from the spanish times but gradually up to the present sex is already an open topic but still not within the family. I would say there is still conservatism in the filipino family in general especially in the Philippines but there are other filipino families outside of the country where probably its more liberal but i would still think its not many. Just an opinion from rodaflip http://flipantasticweb.blogspot.com

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