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		<title>By: jenn</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-272226</link>
		<dc:creator>jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 04:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that's why i dont watch those stupid TV shows. it shows arrogance and ignorance at the same time. the screenwriter seemed to be out of touch of reality. fyi, some people here prefer filipino doctors and nurses because of their expertise and caring attitude towards their patients.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s why i dont watch those stupid TV shows. it shows arrogance and ignorance at the same time. the screenwriter seemed to be out of touch of reality. fyi, some people here prefer filipino doctors and nurses because of their expertise and caring attitude towards their patients.</p>
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		<title>By: the jester-in-exile</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-108944</link>
		<dc:creator>the jester-in-exile</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2007 13:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think we can tie benj's insightful take on this issue with that of doc tess' on prejudice vis-a-vis malu fernandez.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think we can tie benj&#8217;s insightful take on this issue with that of doc tess&#8217; on prejudice vis-a-vis malu fernandez.</p>
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		<title>By: annamanila</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-108706</link>
		<dc:creator>annamanila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 17:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So much said about this.  It is offensive of course.  Let's demand an apology, by all means.  And I think we got it.

Then time to reflect: why?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So much said about this.  It is offensive of course.  Let&#8217;s demand an apology, by all means.  And I think we got it.</p>
<p>Then time to reflect: why?</p>
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		<title>By: Noemi</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-108428</link>
		<dc:creator>Noemi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 02:32:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Rowena- I watch Desperate Housewives too. The US based filipino doctors are affected by it mainly because they live there.  I don't look at the diplomas of doctors because in the first place, I only go to doctors recommended by friends.

@ Kris- I am bisayan but I don't have a bisayan accent. Most bisayans I know just laugh ithose jokes off.  I don't speak for all the bisayans though. When the joke is among ourselves, it's not that bad but when it involves another race spewing words against us, it comes out very insulting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Rowena- I watch Desperate Housewives too. The US based filipino doctors are affected by it mainly because they live there.  I don&#8217;t look at the diplomas of doctors because in the first place, I only go to doctors recommended by friends.</p>
<p>@ Kris- I am bisayan but I don&#8217;t have a bisayan accent. Most bisayans I know just laugh ithose jokes off.  I don&#8217;t speak for all the bisayans though. When the joke is among ourselves, it&#8217;s not that bad but when it involves another race spewing words against us, it comes out very insulting.</p>
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		<title>By: Kris</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-108352</link>
		<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 21:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Miss Noemi, since my comment is under moderation. Pakiedit nalang yung line na ito..dapat

"What I find very sad here is that Filipinos are not as disturbed by their own Filipino racism as they are disturbed by american racism. Back here at home, nothing changes. Recently, a guy used that “n” word to insult my friend who has is a morena."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Miss Noemi, since my comment is under moderation. Pakiedit nalang yung line na ito..dapat</p>
<p>&#8220;What I find very sad here is that Filipinos are not as disturbed by their own Filipino racism as they are disturbed by american racism. Back here at home, nothing changes. Recently, a guy used that “n” word to insult my friend who has is a morena.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Kris</title>
		<link>http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/10/06/feelings-towards-desperate-housewives-slur-episode/#comment-108351</link>
		<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 21:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find is very sad that Filipinos are not as disturbed by their own Filipino racism as they are disturbed by american racism. Back here at home, nothing changes. Recently, a guy used that "n" word to insult my friend who has is a morena.

I now wonder, what if Teri Hatcher was a black woman? Many(not all naman) would probably use that pejorative "n" word against her.

I'm not saying that Filipinos should not stand up and fight against racism just because they practice racism. What I'm trying to say is that why don't we ourselves try to abandon our equally racist habits?

The other day, I was watching an episode of GKNB a few days ago. One contestant was asked by Edu about the name of her children and she explain why her daughters name was THEA instead on THIA(a concoction of her and her husband's name). What did she say? "Kasi kapag Thia, parang Bisaya". Knowing that GKNB is not live and just taped, why did ABS-CBN not delete that part(kahit yung part lang na yun, interview alng yun ni Edu and not the actual game). I am not Bisaya but I am appaled how Visayan discrimination is still stuck in the consciousness of many of our kababayans.

Are we now heading toward the double standard path? Makes me also think if those people who cried foul against racism are actually against racism? Fighting racism is two way(it takes to two tango as they cliche says): you will not allow others to insult you because of your race AND you won't insult other people because of their race.

Maybe, it's just me why that "parang Bisaya" statement caught me -- I have a Visayan friend who now works in taipei and I myself have indigenous blood and because of it, I have experienced first hand discriminating statements from fellow Filipinos</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find is very sad that Filipinos are not as disturbed by their own Filipino racism as they are disturbed by american racism. Back here at home, nothing changes. Recently, a guy used that &#8220;n&#8221; word to insult my friend who has is a morena.</p>
<p>I now wonder, what if Teri Hatcher was a black woman? Many(not all naman) would probably use that pejorative &#8220;n&#8221; word against her.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying that Filipinos should not stand up and fight against racism just because they practice racism. What I&#8217;m trying to say is that why don&#8217;t we ourselves try to abandon our equally racist habits?</p>
<p>The other day, I was watching an episode of GKNB a few days ago. One contestant was asked by Edu about the name of her children and she explain why her daughters name was THEA instead on THIA(a concoction of her and her husband&#8217;s name). What did she say? &#8220;Kasi kapag Thia, parang Bisaya&#8221;. Knowing that GKNB is not live and just taped, why did ABS-CBN not delete that part(kahit yung part lang na yun, interview alng yun ni Edu and not the actual game). I am not Bisaya but I am appaled how Visayan discrimination is still stuck in the consciousness of many of our kababayans.</p>
<p>Are we now heading toward the double standard path? Makes me also think if those people who cried foul against racism are actually against racism? Fighting racism is two way(it takes to two tango as they cliche says): you will not allow others to insult you because of your race AND you won&#8217;t insult other people because of their race.</p>
<p>Maybe, it&#8217;s just me why that &#8220;parang Bisaya&#8221; statement caught me &#8212; I have a Visayan friend who now works in taipei and I myself have indigenous blood and because of it, I have experienced first hand discriminating statements from fellow Filipinos</p>
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		<title>By: Rowena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rowena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 14:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Noemi, am a regular viewer of DH, and I find nothing wrong with the comment. We all know the Recto diploma mills and not to mention the recent nursing board exams' cheating. Kahit dito sa Manila, some patients really ask where the doctors graduated and even look on the diploma hanging on the doctor's clinic (like what I do) esp. before going into surgery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Noemi, am a regular viewer of DH, and I find nothing wrong with the comment. We all know the Recto diploma mills and not to mention the recent nursing board exams&#8217; cheating. Kahit dito sa Manila, some patients really ask where the doctors graduated and even look on the diploma hanging on the doctor&#8217;s clinic (like what I do) esp. before going into surgery.</p>
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		<title>By: Noemi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noemi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 00:31:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@benj- very well said

@Jon- am also curious. A lot of money will need to be spent to pursue that class suit. They might actually have the money to do that. I read in their site that a lawyer discouraged them to file the class suit. I bet an enterprising lawyer will offer to be their lawyer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@benj- very well said</p>
<p>@Jon- am also curious. A lot of money will need to be spent to pursue that class suit. They might actually have the money to do that. I read in their site that a lawyer discouraged them to file the class suit. I bet an enterprising lawyer will offer to be their lawyer.</p>
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		<title>By: Jon Limjap</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jon Limjap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 09:18:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've heard that a class action suit will be filed. I'm eager to see the results of that suit, and what precedent it will set in the US legal system vis-a-vis racism. Especially because it will not only impact the Fil-Am community, but it will be a milestone of sorts in further defining "hate crime" if it indeed is one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve heard that a class action suit will be filed. I&#8217;m eager to see the results of that suit, and what precedent it will set in the US legal system vis-a-vis racism. Especially because it will not only impact the Fil-Am community, but it will be a milestone of sorts in further defining &#8220;hate crime&#8221; if it indeed is one.</p>
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		<title>By: benj</title>
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		<dc:creator>benj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 04:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;While it is true that we are all guilty about making fun of others and our own, I am still allowed to speak up when majority of us are insulted….&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Of course. It makes perfect sense. People who argue the opposite don't have a grasp of logic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>While it is true that we are all guilty about making fun of others and our own, I am still allowed to speak up when majority of us are insulted….</p></blockquote>
<p>Of course. It makes perfect sense. People who argue the opposite don&#8217;t have a grasp of logic.</p>
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