Comments on: The Victim Trap Part 2 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/ Parenting, Health, Wellness & Family Thu, 04 Dec 2008 05:42:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: pekopeko http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-164241 pekopeko Sat, 09 Feb 2008 16:24:21 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-164241 i accidentally fell on this post as i check your new post, intrigued by the story i ended up reading i guess half of the story. there were so many people who gave their (unsolicited & preachy this is just my opinion) comments...i dont wanna take side nor give my opinion on this because it will only aggravate the situation and even worse we only know only half of the real story. the tale as told by tim..we haven't heard yet the side of mayen too..but i'm glad you wrote a post on this because this are part & parcel of the ugly realities of life :-( i accidentally fell on this post as i check your new post, intrigued by the story i ended up reading i guess half of the story. there were so many people who gave their (unsolicited & preachy this is just my opinion) comments…i dont wanna take side nor give my opinion on this because it will only aggravate the situation and even worse we only know only half of the real story. the tale as told by tim..we haven’t heard yet the side of mayen too..but i’m glad you wrote a post on this because this are part & parcel of the ugly realities of life :-(

]]> By: Noemi http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-162040 Noemi Wed, 06 Feb 2008 05:21:52 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-162040 @issai- too bad for the turn of events in the comments. I am for freedom of speech as long as it is not libelous. I had to close it because even the readers were being accused . Thanks. I hope to write one day. I am struggling to learn how to write better. Maybe ebooks. I don't lend money unless there is collateral. A friendship was destroyed in the past because it involved a debt not paid. @issai- too bad for the turn of events in the comments. I am for freedom of speech as long as it is not libelous. I had to close it because even the readers were being accused .

Thanks. I hope to write one day. I am struggling to learn how to write better. Maybe ebooks.

I don’t lend money unless there is collateral. A friendship was destroyed in the past because it involved a debt not paid.

]]> By: issai http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-162034 issai Wed, 06 Feb 2008 05:06:51 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-162034 i read the comments on the filipinaimages.com, and things really got nasty. i don't think he wants justice at all, i think he was after vengeance. but you're welcome to prove i'm wrong. you should be writing a self-help books. i'm already learning lessons at my age before i even need it. another thing, if you lend money don't expect it back. if you expect it back, don't lend money. i use that rule on family and friends, and it works wonders. i read the comments on the filipinaimages.com, and things really got nasty. i don’t think he wants justice at all, i think he was after vengeance. but you’re welcome to prove i’m wrong.

you should be writing a self-help books. i’m already learning lessons at my age before i even need it.

another thing, if you lend money don’t expect it back. if you expect it back, don’t lend money. i use that rule on family and friends, and it works wonders.

]]> By: Noemi http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-161956 Noemi Wed, 06 Feb 2008 01:21:41 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-161956 @lady cess- the attention can be addicting. I too felt that way when my son died and realized that it didn't help me off my feet. Reaching out to others in pain helped a whole lot more. @lady cess- the attention can be addicting. I too felt that way when my son died and realized that it didn’t help me off my feet. Reaching out to others in pain helped a whole lot more.

]]> By: lady cess http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-161934 lady cess Wed, 06 Feb 2008 00:47:19 +0000 http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2008/02/05/the-victim-trap-part-2/#comment-161934 "It’s true we can be victims in any situation but it doesn’t have to be permanent" true true!and, we can choose to come out the victor instead of the victim. read somewhere that some people fall into the victim trap because the attention, sympathy, offers of shoulders to cry on et al can be addicting. “It’s true we can be victims in any situation but it doesn’t have to be permanent”

true true!and, we can choose to come out the victor instead of the victim.

read somewhere that some people fall into the victim trap because the attention, sympathy, offers of shoulders to cry on et al can be addicting.

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