Comments on: What is the Worst Pain Ever?

By: imie

imie — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 14:33:21 +0000

alam nyo po ma’m, nagbuntis po ate ko 9 months nya dinala c baby, but unfortunately hindi pala cya para sa amin.. nun nanganak ang ate ko, papunta palang sila sa hospital dinugo na siya, pagdating sa hospital nun inilabas na ang baby patay na.. up to know alam ko nasasaktan ang ate ko sa nangyari. namatay ang baby niya because of pre eclampsia daw sabi ng OB niya. Gusto ko tulungn ang ate ko para kahit papano makalimot o mabawasan un pain na hanggang ngayon dinadala niya, kaso hindi ko alam kung pano siya matulungan eh.

By: jhelo143

jhelo143 — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 14:22:21 +0000

I agree with you guys. I witnessed how my mom still mourns for my 33-year old bro after he died 1 yr.ago, aside from the fact that he was the eldest among us 3sibs, and being a blue baby we consider him special. I couldn’t just stand seeing her pretending to be happy when obviously she’s not. I wish i could do something to ease her pain… totally.

By: geri

geri — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 14:06:19 +0000

Noemi, just thinking how I love my son I just can’t imagine it is to lose a child. It would be the worst pain ever, I agree. You are an inspiration to moms and parents who are experiencing what you have been through.

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By: Heal

Heal — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 21:42:49 +0000

Yes it’s true a baby is the biggest step in our life… can change people and make miracles. I’m new to this blog but your posts are rare good Keep it up!

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By: Jayme

Jayme — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 02:05:44 +0000

Just the thought of being separated from my babies is enough to make me cry. I don’t even want to imagine how I would feel when I lose them. True, life is such a wonderful blessing and, no matter what pain or challenges it hurls our way, we should focus on the good things and always be grateful.
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By: sexy mom

sexy mom — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 18:31:36 +0000

true Noemi, i have seen and i have felt how painful it was and is still–seeing my son and DIL. losing a grandchild is painful enough, and i know that the pain does not compare with that of my son and DIL.

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By: Noemi

Noemi — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 16:08:12 +0000

@venice- just hug your mom. We go through crisis now and then and we learn from it.

@scart- blame is part of the grief process. No matter how long ago the death took place, we never forget the love for our child. The pain eases but it does not go away. We learn to live with the pain. Love never goes away. We hurt because we loved deeply. Healing is find that new normal without our child.

By: scart

scart — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 15:24:48 +0000

bakit ako hindi ko parin makalimutan ang baby ko. nawala sya after a month i gave birth to her. i blame myself and i blame all the doctors and nurses who diagnose her. its been 3 years and yet i still cry for it. i’m able to temporary forget about it by diverting my mind into other things. i hope i ‘ll be heal too…

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By: venice

venice — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 07:58:16 +0000

well, for a moment i was speechless… i realized like how sometimes i tell my friends when we talk about fears and pain, i tell ‘em gusto ko mauna akong mamatay kesa sa nanay ko. i say it because, i’m too dependent on my mum and i love her so much… that i dont know what i’ll do when she’s gone. i guess saying that is very selfish of me…. ‘never realized that till now. =(

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By: Noemi

Noemi — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 05:08:10 +0000

@lisaflor- That’s good to know. The bitterness softens through time. We all heal in our time.

@2bout- Yes there is a hole. It patches up in time. the wound will always be there like a scar. Sometimes we scratch it and it gets sore again. Such is grief