21st wedding anniversary

married for 21 yearsTwenty one years ago, I married my boyfriend of 7 years. We’ve had 21 years of [tag]marriage[/tag] and 28 years as a couple. Inspite of the catfights, diverse personalities and the death of our precious son, we are still together. How did we do it? I don’t know. It must be the hopeless romantics in us that keeps us together. I credit my husband for never giving up on me during those times I gave up on him. We celebrated our [tag]wedding anniversary[/tag] with a simple dinner at Via Mare with our 2 daughters. Before dinner we attended the book launch of “Journey beyond the Great Wall” at the National Bookstore , Shangrila Plaza Mall.

oystersFor appetizers, Butch ordered oysters. I whispered “aphrodisiacs” .

But I can’t eat them“.

Too bad, Butch suffers high uric acid. I ended up eating 5 oysters.

girlsThe girls seemed happy to see us in our loving and romantic mode. Butch can be passionate and demonstrative in front of the children that I have to nudge him, “ahem. the children!“. Actually , it’s better that they see us love each other rather than fight. If it were not for the children, I would have given up on our marriage a long time ago. One of my mistakes was to concentrate too much on motherhood. I know better now and the girls understand that we need our couple time away from home.

Our wedding vows are “till death do us part”. However, my husband and I often say that we will love each other till eternal life. That’s only because we have a son in heaven who gives us hope for eternal life. For now, we practice frequent recommitment and celebration. We look forward to more years of togetherness.

Twenty one years ago…..
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Noemi Lardizabal-Dado (1346 Posts)

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.


About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.

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  • http://ilocana.com dexie

    Hey we have the same anniversarry. My husband and I are celebrating our 9th yr anniversarry today.

    Congratulations on your 21 years. Many more years to come. *hugs*

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Dexie: congratulations to both of us. May our marriage last for a very long time. Incidentally my friend. Alma and Mario Miclat, writers of the book “Journey beyond the Great Wall” also share the same anniversary date.

  • http://www.dhvcat1984.blogspot.com ann

    Hello! Happy 21st anniversary!

    Saw your link from Toe.

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Ann: thanks for the greeting 🙂

  • http://bettytlopez.i.ph Betty T. Lopez

    Hi Noemi, finally found u. Remember me Betty Tenmatay? From UP, the girl u used to hang out with sa Sampaguita togther with Gigi and other Kalilayan members like Joseph Regalado (who is now a Pedia) , Dick Baronia(now a Neurosurgeon) and Gerry Garcia. I dont know if u still recall, but u can view my photos and maybe remember me. Drop me a line at http://bettytlopez.i.ph and my sons http://nygelnniles.i.ph
    Married late so my kids are still young ,hear from u soon

    Betty Tenmatay Lopez

  • http://www.kurokuroatbp.blogspot.com Toe

    Happy 21st Anniversary! Nice wedding pics. Butch’s hair was still dark 21 years ago. 🙂

  • http://crayolaskies.org cris

    congratulations and happy anniversary to you and your husband 🙂

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Toe: Thanks. Butch has premature graying like Taylor Hicks . hehe but Butch got it in his mid 30’s

    Cris: thanks.

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Betty: how nice naman of you to drop by. Of course I remember you. I already have a daughter in UP diliman but she can’t get in the dorm. The good old UP days. I saw your pics ! I wish I could have a vacation in Hongkong Disneyland. I’ll surely visit your blog everyday. Thanks for dropping by!

  • http://www.jairamdinsomniac.blogspot.com jane

    Congratulations!

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Jane: thanks

  • http://blog.ademagnaye.com ade

    Congratulations! May you havemore anniversaries to come. 😉

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Ade: of course we wish to have more anniversaries. Thanks

  • http://paraz.com Miguel

    Congrats! More wedding pics!! 🙂