Laughter rings on Father’s Day

The poetry therapy at the Compassionate Friends meeting yesterday made Butch and everyone else in a jovial mood. (see pics here) In our meetings, we laugh and cry as we share our stories. But yesterday, laughter rang out more often the tears. Our facilitator, Victor Emmanuel Carmelo D. Nadera Jr. is a brillant [...]

Filed under: Celebrations, Grief Recovery

Death in the Time of Hepatitis

That’s my younger brother , Reuben who died on June 11, 1990 due to fulminant Hepatitis A. He left behind a young wife, a three year old and a three week old infant son. There is more to his death than just an illness. This feature article written by my sister Belen [...]

Filed under: Grief Recovery, Memory Lane

The Grief Interview with Cheche Lazaro

To be interviewd by Cheche Lazaro in “Straight Talk” is an honor. Her interview style is excellent. You know, I usually get a pre-interview by production assistants days before a show. This is normal procedure since hosts are usually busy. It surprised me that no one from ANC (ABS-CBN News Channel) [...]

Filed under: Grief Education, Grief Recovery, Grief in the News, Press Mentions

Today is May 27

Six years ago on May 27, 2000

Butch with Luijoe at Maribago Bluewaters Beach Resort in Mactan, Cebu

Filed under: Grief Recovery, Memory Lane, Milestones

As Luijoe’s 6th death anniversary nears

Read more about my son’s death at the Maribago Bluewater Beach Resort blog entry.
Anniversary dates often stare out from the calendar. The birthday and death anniversary in the calendar are the most prominent and so hard to acknowledge. The birthday , July 13, 1993 that brought so much joy seem but a fond [...]

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Successful Book Launch of “Fallen Cradle”

“Fallen Cradle” is a book of 22 stories by parents who have a lost a child. It was formally launched today at Powerbooks Greenbelt Makati. What can I say? The Book launch was a huge success. The initial 150 books set for the launch ran out. Anvil Publishing rushed to get more [...]

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Color my Grief

Creatively-challenged me had a great time at our monthly Compassionate Friends meeting. Instead of our usual sharing sessions, we turned it into a family activity involving art therapy. Cathy arranged a special session with Color Me Mine Philippines just for our group.
For this meeting, I also invited my daughter, Lauren. My other daughter [...]

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Happy Resurrection Day

“I am the resurrection and the life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die.” (John11:25,25)

I’ve written this many times before. My 6 year old son placed so much faith in eternal life. A month before he died, he bounced up [...]

Filed under: Grief Recovery, Memory Lane, Spiritual