Who are the towel and basin people in your life?

Apr 21, 11 Who are the towel and basin people in your life?

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So when he had washed their feet and put his garments back on and reclined at table again, he said to them, “Do you realize what I have done for you?” (John 13:12) At the St. Francis Chapel inside Padre Pio Center in Libis The Holy Week is always special to me as I recall my last Lenten holiday with my son 11 years ago. Every...

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Healing thoughts during Holy Week

Apr 21, 11 Healing thoughts during Holy Week

Posted by in Recovery Tips, Spiritual

I’m exhausted. Not from work but from trying to figure out things from 3:00 PM till midnight yesterday. That’s all I can do. I can only do so much. It is not my job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, life. There is magic in letting go. Sometimes we get what we want soon after we let go. Sometimes it takes...

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Where I am today

May 26, 10 Where I am today

Posted by in Grief Recovery, Spiritual

I often wonder how he would look like today. The young man as he often called himself even at 6 years old, is supposed to be an incoming college freshman, the last of my children to be in school. Would he have been taller than my husband? Would he have the same gleaming smile? Will he still throw me kisses and give me a bunch...

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How my son inspired me to start a grief support advocacy

Apr 02, 10 How my son inspired me to start a grief support advocacy

Posted by in Grief Recovery, Spiritual

“My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me ?” I can easily relate to one of the last words of a dying Christ. Who has not, at some dark hour, cried out to the heavens in anguish and pain and wondered if indeed we have been cursed and abandoned by God ? Image taken from Luijoe’s prayer book The image of a dying Jesus...

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Love one another, as I have loved you

Apr 01, 10 Love one another, as I have loved you

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If there is one commandment in the Gospel that challenges me is “Love one another, as I have loved you.” We can come to Holy Thursday prepared by our reflection on how difficult it is to love some people, either because we recoil at their “smelly-ness” or because we find them unattractive or unable to love...

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A Cafeteria Catholic Meets Father Robert Reyes

Sep 16, 09 A Cafeteria Catholic Meets Father Robert Reyes

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We can believe what we choose. We are answerable for what we choose to believe. — Venerable John Henry Newman I am not ashamed to admit that I am not a devout Catholic. You can say, a Cafeteria Catholic. Ah, I can just imagine my dear departed dad worried about my eternal salvation. Is that what you call it? I believe...

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Charice Performs Note to God at The Oprah Show

May 19, 09 Charice Performs Note to God at The Oprah Show

Posted by in Entertainment, Spiritual

If I wrote a note to God I’d say please help us find our way End all the bitterness, put some tenderness in our hearts Youtube Video Link of Charice’s Note To God or view a clearer and larger video at the oprah.com media player. Take note: Charice’s first international debut single, “Note To God” is...

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Pabasa, Meditation and Prayer

Meditation gives you an opportunity to come to know your invisible self. It allows you to empty yourself of the endless hyperactivity of your mind, and to attain calmness. It teaches you to be peaceful, to remove stress, to receive answers where confusion previously reigned. Wayne Dyer It’s been two years since we moved to our...

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An Easter Message of Eternal Life

Mar 23, 08 An Easter Message of Eternal Life

Posted by in Grief, Spiritual

“If I die, Mama, will I be alive again?” Luijoe asked. My six-year-old was lying on the bed, flipping through the prayer books piled on his tummy. It was Holy Week, a month before that fateful day of May 27, 2000. I turned my body to face his and stroked his cheek. How could I explain the mysteries of death to a little boy? ...

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From Cradle to Cross: A Mother’s Joy and Pain

Mar 21, 08 From Cradle to Cross: A Mother’s Joy and Pain

Posted by in Grief, Spiritual

Every Good Friday was just like any other day for me. The streets are empty. Everything is still. At 3:00 PM, I’d bow my head in prayer and reflect on Jesus’ death. That is before the death of my son. I never knew what it felt to be the mother of Jesus, losing a son until of course, I lost my precious son 8 years ago....

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Holy Rosary Podcast

Oct 11, 07 Holy Rosary Podcast

Posted by in Memory Lane, Spiritual

The blue rosary in the photo belongs to Luijoe. A month before he died, he placed it lovingly on the rear view mirror of my car so mama, you will always be protected. Little did he know that he would be in heaven a month later, watching over me and the rest of the family. The Holy Rosary played an important part in my son’s...

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Loida Nicolas Lewis Talks on Grief and God’s Love

Sep 20, 07 Loida Nicolas Lewis Talks on Grief and God’s Love

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Yesterday, I caught up with Loida Nicolas Lewis at her condo somewhere in Makati just before her flight to New York. I have heard so much about her as an industrialist and philanthropist. It was my task to interview her for a University of the Philippines’ (UP) centennial book project to be launched next year for the 100th...

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