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This entry was set to private after Alan Ocab & I talked in August 20, 2007 because we felt that the issue should die down quietly. (Click here for more details) . I decided to bring it back after someone questioned my removal without an explanation. Here it is:

It was not my intention to hurt the boy or his family. I apologized to the father and apologies were accepted. However, I explained the purpose of my entry. I mentioned that authorship of the entries posted in his blog should be cited clearly and not posted at the bottom of the entry. It wasn’t my intention to even mention the name but overzealous bloggers decided to spill it out.

At the time I wrote the post, it was not clear who the authors were of some entries. It was made to appear that Carl wrote the entries because the guest authors or bloggers were not cited. I know Carl wrote some of them but not all and it was not clear. As of today, the guest authors (the byline) are now clearly shown after the title of the entry. Hope that clears the matter.

Alan Ocab and I understood each other and that is all that matters.

Responsible bloggers recognize that they are publishing words for everyone to read. Does it follow that they have certain ethical obligations to their readers, the people they write about, and society in general ? The blog’s greatest strength, particularly its uncensored and uncontrolled voice, is deemed its greatest weakness. Most bloggers are against anything that constrain their freedom. But most bloggers also know that The blogosphere runs on customs and norms – on what the community feels is acceptable (The cost of ethics: Influence peddling in the blogosphere). I presume most of you know the common sense rules on the Bloggers’ Code of Ethics . Whatever ethics in real life applies in cyberspace, right?

Now what happens when you face a suspicion that the person who created a blog is misinterpreting the facts?

I don’t care if you are a man pretending to be woman or a prime time woman assuming a young woman’s persona. What infuriates me is when a parent uses their minor child to create a blog and misrepresent some facts! (This is not the same thing as Cessky Pooh where the dad clearly states that his daughter is the voice of the blog.) What gets to me is that it’s unfair to the child. Do I continue to be a spectator of this modern day “The Emperor’s New Clothes”? Some of you just like me willingly share in a collective ignorance of an obvious fact, despite individually recognizing the absurdity. I can’t blame you but think harder.

Is this morally right?

Should I ignore?

Dedmahan?

A few of you know who I am talking about. A few of you raised your suspicions to me . I could easily turn a blind eye just so I don’t rock the boat. In the end, my conscience took control of my “Emperor New Clothes” thinking.

I probed and asked one blogger after he talked with the child and the parent blogger. Guess what he said?

The secret of the blog is the parent. The parent taught the child and then the child writes . So it’s really the child writing.

Huh?

That’s absurd.

It’s still not the child’s blog.

First of all, what kind of values is the parent instilling to the child that fudging the truth is OK?

Secondly, what happens to the child? The child grows up confused and cannot meet people’s unrealistic expectations. The truth will come out sooner or later.

What next?

We continue to adhere to ethical blogging standards.

The moral standards which guide us in real life should be the same standards that we observe in cyberspace. There should be no dichotomy.

Therefore, moral values like honesty, adherence to truth and respect for other people (even your minor child) should also be observed in cyberspace.

I cannot condone blogs like this. There is no fault on the innocent child. Gosh, it’s an insult to my intelligence that some people expect me to believe blindly a questionable circumstance.

I cannot turn a blind eye and ignore an obvious falsehood. This type of blog is not acceptable to the blogosphere.

Pray tell me, would you do this to your own child?

Comments Closed. Everything has been said. If you want to discuss this further, post an entry in your blog. If you have any questions, send me an email

About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

Noemi, Editor of Blog Watch and features editor of Philippine Online Chronicles is a 55 year old mother to three kids and is married to Atty. Luis H. Dado. She loves being a full time mother and homemaker after retiring as a Researcher/Consultant from the UP Institute for Small Scale Industries in 1987. Now that her children are all college graduates, she devotes her time to grief support, blogging, new media events and using her blogs to promote online advocacies. Her personal blog is at aboutmyrecovery.com, which garnered numerous awards such as Best Website, Blog Category during the 9th and 10th Philippine Web Awards. Her blog also won in the Blog- Personal Category of the DigitalFilipino.com Web Awards 2007 and Globelines Broadband Family Blog Award (in honor of family-oriented blogging) 2007 Philippine Blog Award. Globe also recognized her as Digital Elder in the 2009 Philippine Blog Award.

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  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    Just note the conflicting statements on how the blog got setup

    from Jozzua.com comments:

    @benj – Yes, tama po kayo.. he monitors my blog once in a while but i’m the only one who build it from scratch

    Then an interview with this blog
    adii.co.za/2007/04/30/make-money-online-with-a-13-year-old/

    Yea, I started it only this February 4. With the help of my dad with the set-up.

  • http://jennys-corner.com jennyL

    hmmmm very interesting and poor lil kid being used by his dad kung totoo talaga.. tsktsk

  • http://www.manuelviloria.com/archives/carl-ocabs-ghostwriter/ ManuelV

    Noemi, did you speak with Mr. Alan Ocab regarding this ghostwriting issue before you published this post which practically accuses him publicly of unethical behavior, immorality and child abuse/exploitation?

    (You know, something along the lines of direct questions on authorship, asked face to face, so that you can gauge the sincerity of his answers.)

    If not, have you already spoken with him or his son Carl about your suspicions regarding the authorship of those CarlOcab.com blog posts?

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    @ManuelIV- Good you asked that question. But first of all, I never wrote about ghostwriting issue. My post is about the misrepresentation of facts of the blog. You are referring to someone else’s blog post not mine.

    The exploitation issue was not mentioned by me but one of my commenters. In fact, Connie did.

    I talked of ethical standards in blogging.

    Yes , I talked to the boy in that event . We have photos taken together. Bloggers saw me talking to the boy . I spoke twice to the boy .( Dine who was beside me also spoke to the boy. But she will post her observations if she wants to.)

    And his answers confirmed my suspicions. His reply on PPC didn’t match his post on PPC. He couldn’t reply to it. I asked if he could talk about money making online and he evaded the topic and rather talk about blogging tips.

    Then that blogger spoke to the boy but couldn’t get straight answers from the boy so turned to the father.he later on told me that the secret is the dad. (check that quote above)

    I also compared the writing style of the father and the boy. They are similar.

    My entry has basis my dear Manuel. What about you?

    Have you talked to the boy as in real life? Did you ask direct questions about the money making online tips? You only emailed them separately, right?

  • http://www.manuelviloria.com/archives/carl-ocabs-ghostwriter/ ManuelV

    Thanks, Noemi. Glad to see more details here, particularly the one on PPC and writing style.

    In the case of , was he the one who said that the child did the writing (after being taught by the parent)?

    To answer your question: I’ve only emailed Carl and Alan on the issue of who wrote the posts. I didn’t ask them about making money online tips. I haven’t spoken with them yet, although I’ve scheduled a phone conversation with Alan tonight, so I’ll definitely ask about tips.

    So, if ghostwriting/authorship is not the issue here in your post, what facts were misrepresented?

    Ownership of the blog? (“It’s still not the child’s blog.”)

    And that the parent used the child to misrepresent which facts? Carl’s knowledge of PPC?

    What fudged truth were you referring to, Noemi?

  • http://aboutmyrecovery.com Noemi

    @ManuelIV- If you want to make the issue bigger, go on. I was just taking a stand on an ethical issue.

    I cannot speak for Jomar . Ask him yourself.

    Maybe it’s best that you speak to them and judge for yourself.

    Misrepresentation of facts – Like I said I didn’t write about ghost writing per se rather it refers to ownership of blog and authorship of the entries. It says the boy wrote those entries in the about me page. “the guy behind the .com and I give tips to people who wants to make money online via blogging, websites and other methods.”

    Fudged truth means it’s not really the child writing most of the entries especially the more complicated ones e.g. PPC

    I believe the truth will come out eventually and , as the saying goes, will set us free.

  • http://dine.racoma.com.ph SexyMom

    wait, Noemi, i am confused, is this ManuelV you are responding to, the same ManuelV who earlier posted this comment?

    ManuelV:

    Wait… it’s really the teener writing? As in, *all* the posts?

    For the longest time, I thought the parent was the one writing all of the ebiz posts in that blog.

    If the teener was the one who really wrote all those posts, then all I can say is he sure can write!

    Who knows? Maybe he’s the one ghostwriting for his dad. He probably just used his dad’s persona in the past, so that he’d be taken seriously online.

    Later on, he probably realized he was better off just being himself.

    Ahem. ;-)
    - – - – -

    I wonder, it seems like he is singing a different tune now. He must have thoroughly interviewed the father-son tandem to make a quick conclusion.

    anyway, i was just wondering. do you remember when during the start of the program in Max’s, we were all asked to introduce ourselves, and tell the audience what we do? Mr Ocab said he was an “events organizer”.

    While google searching his name, I was very surprised to find pages and pages of his Making Money Online type of activities. I wonder why he did not tell us about it at that time?

    Just to put it on record, we talked to Carl. I asked him what the sources are of his writings–he said research and own ideas (wow! i said). i also asked if he goes to school, he said, yes. and again i said, good he still has a lot of time to write, and those are very complicated topics, i told him. i asked how does this pay per click operate, he said “affiliates”. We did not have a real conversation, because he answered only in one or few words, not even sentences.

    This issue has blown to proportions now. I know it is not your intention to hurt anyone, nor was it also my intention when i commented to your and ManuelV’s posts.

    If indeed it is Carl who writes his own articles in his blog, well and good–we have a child wonder in or midst.

    But if it is not him, and it is somebody else writing, well, they can continue fooling people. But really, they can just say the truth, it won’t hurt to tell the truth.

    As I commented in ManuelV’s post – The Marcoses said they did not plunder the Philippines, Erap says, too. Oh yes, there is no evidence. And Filipinos are indeed intelligent.

  • ManuelV

    Thanks, Noemi. My question about- relates to the quote you posted in your entry.

    At any rate, thank you for clarifying your view on whether Carl wrote most of the entries or not.

  • ManuelV

    @SexyMom

    Singing a different tune? Nope…

    From the start I could not believe a teener was writing all those posts. And then I read in Noemi’s post the quote: “The secret of the blog is the parent. The parent taught the child and then the child writes . So it’s really the child writing.”

    That’s the context of my first comment in this post.

    How exactly did my tune change?

    (Looks like my “Ahem ;-) ” got skimmed over.)

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