You can’t wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug. ~Author Unknown
HUG [huhg] – verb : to clasp tightly in the arms, especially with affection; embrace
A friend who I have not seen for over 30 years suddenly gave me a full-on hug, unselfconsciously without much thought and took my breath away. I guess there were some things left unspoken. My affection is beyond words.
A tight hug overcomes all boundaries. It speaks words within the mind that cannot be spoken. For some reason, I was so touched by that one good hug that I sort of teared that night, not of sadness but of joy. It felt good to be hugged by a dear friend whom I have lost contact. The hugs felt so good because it relieved any feelings of emptiness and burdens that I may have carried unconsciously.
Hugs feel so good because all unexpressed feelings can be expressed in the manner of hugging.
Hugs feel good because it serves as one avenue of expressing any kind of emotion that is difficult to express verbally.
They say there is a science to hugging.
The act of hugging comes in various forms. Experts claimed that hugs give positive effects on health. Research has shown that hugs increase levels of oxytocin as well as it reduces blood pressure levels. In fact, hugs have known to increase levels of serotonin, which is the hormone responsible for one’s mood, emotional responses and energy levels. With its increase, it stimulates other systems to function efficiently and adequately giving one person an exceptional feeling of wellness.
Psychologist Virginia Satir once said, ““We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth.” I take the time and energy in eating right, exercising, and nurturing myself. I make sure I get a minimum dose of four hugs a day and even more from my husband and family. I am not talking of 10 second hugs. The hugs should be at least 20 seconds. A study at the University of North Carolina found that levels of cortisol, the hormone produced when we’re under stress, were significantly lowered (particularly in women) when subjects hugged their partners for at least twenty seconds.
The world would be a better place if we smiled more often and hugged a bit longer.
Give someone a big long hug. Make sure it lasts at least 20 seconds.
From me to you, here is a virtual hug.
” Everybody needs a hug. It changes your metabolism.”