On Lauren’s 11th Blog Anniversary

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A few days ago, Lauren announced that her interview appeared in the December 2007 issue of Cosmopolitan Magazine, Philippine Edition.

I cringed Ugh. Don’t tell me it’s about dating escapades? My voice raised a notch higher than usual. Most of Cosmo articles I read in the beauty salon revolve around dating and sex lives with a mishmash of fashion makeovers and token articles. Not that I am a prude, but uh please, sex escapades on cheating boyfriends/girlfriends or one-night stands are best kept private. Is that something to be proud of? Anyway, I digress.

“No mom, it’s about my blog”.

I heaved a sigh of relief. Not that I was doubting Lauren’s integrity but I didn’t have much faith in Cosmopolitan’s ability to churn out relevant self-help articles for young adult women.

The feature article, Why More Women Blog, is perfect timing for Lauren’s 11th year in blogging. I believe it is one of Cosmo’s token feature article to tone down the sex-life-themed magazine.

journalEleven years ago on December 22, 1996, Lauren wrote her first journal entry. The original entry does not show in worldkids.net anymore but if you’re a geek, you can probably figure a way to read the full entry. I cannot remember the webpage address of her old journal sites. I’ve lost count. In the early 2000’s , Lauren, like many domain trendsetters, wanted to own a lot of domains. But just like any fad, she easily got bored with it. Thank goodness, I kept paying for the domain name renewal. During those days, I never imagined that domain names would be a gold mine in the future. I bought/took over her abandoned journal domain sites, converted them to niche blogs where I earn some passive income.

Just a small footnote to a disgruntled reader.

To this sad 35-40 year old blogger who thinks I was the ghost writer of Lauren’s entries, I pity you. You scoured thousand and thousand upon entries just to disprove the authorship of Lauren’s journal entries. Why waste your time? What should you have done instead? If you know her fifth grade English teacher, go ask him instead. His name is Edwin Eulalia. If you know Myrna Co, my editor before Lauren was born, you will know from her that I suck at creative writing. She laughed when I told her about your accusation. Of course, I was not insulted that she laughed. If ever, Lauren should have been your ghost writer, Myrna adds. She is truly gifted in weaving a story out of her daily life. She started writing at the age of four years old entitled “The Virus” complete with illustrations. I can scan that too. All her handwritten stories and novels are like precious jewels to me kept safe in a treasure chest for her children to read one day.

So why am I mentioning all this? You can doubt all you want but you should know that threats are quite immature and illegal too. And harassment? Come on!

Her grammar may have seemed perfect. Just like any concerned mother, I corrected errors in the subject-verb agreement so she would learn from her mistakes. But never did I tamper the voice of her entries or stories. Not even the sentence structure.

Why did Lauren last this long in the blogging world? It’s because she loves to write. Take away the blog and she will still write.

With or without a blog, Lauren will always find ways to express her creativity and hone her writing skills.

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  • Congrats to Lauren. How pathetic is that woman? She must have no life. I wonder what she will gain from disproving the authorship.

  • Ade

    I am never letting Lauren off the hook. I will be reading her archives, and I know how much she hates that. 😛

  • @lourdes- I have no idea. Maybe she wants to stress herself.

    @ade- sshh don’t tell her how you found out. She’ll hate that.


  • I fell the same way regarding the Cosmo magazine here in the US. too much Sex stuff. I’m no prude in anyway but issue after issue it’s all bout how to have a better “O”. cryingoutloud. If a woman doesn’t know how by now, then she’s sh!t out of luck!.. or just get a toy. LOL

    Anyhoo, i’m with you on that “stalker”. It’s so pathetic how she spent time trying to disprove Lauren for the sake of being told “she’s right”. Of course she isn’t but oh well.

    I’ll visit Lauren to send her my congratulations. You’re so right about her writing even after blogging is gone. A writer like her wouldn’t care if there’s an online way to do it. She’ll write wherever, and as brilliant as she’s always been.

  • @Lauren- oops. nothing to worry. Cute naman eh.

    @dexie- I know… the stories in the anecdote section are really out of this world. Almost impossible or am I such a conservative person?

    We can’t do anything if she thinks she’s right. Such a pity to waste her online time. Thanks for the nice words on Lauren.

  • It’s the crab mentality of the world, Tita Noems: When you’re up, so many people want to pull you down.

    You’ve raised a beautiful, sensible, article – if occasionally, lovably crass – woman. So many of us Pinoy bloggers can only hope to achieve what she has within the period of time she’s been blogging.

    Congratulations and more power to Lauren, and to you as well.

  • It’s the crab mentality of the world, Tita Noems: When you’re up, so many people want to pull you down.

    You’ve raised a beautiful, sensible, articulate – if occasionally, lovably crass – woman. So many of us Pinoy bloggers can only hope to achieve what she has within the period of time she’s been blogging.

    Congratulations and more power to Lauren, and to you as well.

  • Congratulations to Lauren for her 11th blog anniversary!

    Noemi – you are inspiration to Mom on how to support family members who blogs too. Cheers to you!

  • @ganns- crab mentality perhaps.

    @janette- thanks for the support.

  • Congrats to Lauren and you being the supportive mom. Crab mentality is a serious illness. hehe

  • Didi

    I have been reading Lauren’s entry since she was in Here be the girl. I don’t recall a time that someone bitching about her.Anyway, kudos to Lauren!

  • I read all of Lauren’s past entries in her first blog. Very cute! 🙂

  • ‘grats to Lauren and Lauren’s mom! 😉

    I think my first online experience was also back in ’96. Too bad I didn’t have people around me to teach me about blogging – that or I just didn’t know how to research about blogging back then.

    11 years. WOW.

  • yes, i was able to read one of lauren’s post (about how she has freed herself from her anger towards her ex-bf)…. she’s really good. and uh, well, not naman that you’re not as good as her, she’s just, well… an extra special writer 🙂

  • @Ria- really? I haven’t read it in a long time.

    @benj- Lauren discovered “journalling” through an online friend though. I didn’t introduce it to her.

    @lady cess- that’s okay. I know myself. I am more of a technical writer. I learned from Lauren.

  • through your blog–please relay to Lauren my congratulations! my kids showed to me the hard copy but at that time, i was soooo sleeepy. now i realize what they were talking about. again, congrats, Lauren!