Valentine’s Day Celebration

Posted by noemi in Family Celebrations, My Family | 9 comments

In all the 29 years that Butch and I have been a couple (as steadies for 7 years and as married couple) , not once have we celebrated [tag]Valentine[/tag]‘s Day outside the home. During the 7 years that we dated, he’d say “I don’t want to celebrate Valentine’s day but let’s go on a dinner date on the 16th”. So theoretically, we did celebrate [tag]Valentine’s day[/tag] but not on the 14th of February. When we got married, I ‘d cook a simple dinner just to celebrate the romantic nature of the day. Then the kids came. Their teachers often required a Valentine card project for daddy or mommy which prompted me to celebrate Valentine’s Day at home. For the children, Valentine’s Day meant candy hearts, cutesy cards and excitement in the air. Now I didn’t want to be a killjoy. I’d decorate the house with heart shaped balloons, heart shaped cookies , red ribbons and other party fan fare. It was a family celebration of love.

I never really understood why my dear husband loathed Valentine’s day until last night…. He can’t be the Valentine’s Day equivalent of Dr. Scrooge. Butch is a very romantic person. He says the most sappy phrases ever and that’s probably the reason I fell in love with him. Now back to the reason for this Valentine’s Day aversion. I teased him, “Will you buy me flowers?”. He said “not on the 14th. Flowers are very expensive that day”. He reminded me, “Didn’t I just buy you carnations a week ago?”

I laughed. “So it’s an economic reason?”, I joked. He nodded. Ah now I recall, Butch was only 18 years old when we first became steadies. Naturally, he didn’t have the money to buy me the overpriced flowers or presents. All these years, I always thought that he wanted to be unique. Kuripot lang pala. (or is it being thrifty)

The non-celebration of Valentine’s Day on February 14th is our tradition carried through the years.

Tonight, as restaurants are filled to the brim with loving couples, I prepared Italian-themed dinner. My two girls are home from the dorm so they could eat dinner with us. What a surprise!

Another surprise greeted me. Earlier that day, 10 boxes of Nestea Lemon Green Tea met me at the living room. Thanks to H, Cathy’s better half for the 120 bottles of Lemon Green tea! There’s enough bottles to party with.

It’s a wonderful feeling to have the family together in special occasions like this. Valentine’s day is just another day for Butch and I but for the kids, we want to show that our tradition of [tag]Valentine’s Day celebration [/tag] remains alive and full of love.

And Butch’s loving gift for me ?

Surprise! Surprise! I will show it in the coming months.

And my gift to him?

I want Butch to be a handyman.