Worldwide Candle Lighting

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There was a glow at the UP Sunken Garden Sunday evening as friends and family members of the Compassionate Friends Philippines gathered to light candles in memory of our beloved children. Despite the stormy weather, it did not stop the members from going to the event. About 30 people, attended the 10th annual Worldwide Candle Lighting. This is the First Candle ceremony in the Philippines though. In the worldwide ceremony family and friends across the world light a candle at 7 p.m. local time for one hour, starting in New Zealand. As candles burn down in each time zone they are lit in the next to give off 24 hours of continuous light around the globe. The ceremony is held the second Sunday in December. It starts at the International Date Line west of the Hawaiian Islands and works its way eastward, creating a virtual wave of light as it moves from one time zone to the next.

candleIn our Candle Ceremony, Cathy Babao-Guballa read the Memory Candles Poem where she lit 4 candles. One candle represents our GRIEF, one for our COURAGE, one for our MEMORIES and one for our LOVE. Each family that lost a child lit the candle in the butterfly candle holder as their child’s name was called from the Powerpoint Presentation. We continued to read Candle Light Poems till the clock struck past 7:00 PM.

Why do we light candles?

Our children, each of them a bright flame to us in life and in death, are not forgotten. It gives parents an opportunity to commemorate and honor their child’s memory and offers hope. This isn’t a doom-and-gloom thing; this is a very positive event and something our members look forward to, as it gives them a chance to honor their child and help others who might be going through their first Christmas without their child. As my husband lit a candle for my Luijoe, he was moved to tears. It was indeed a touching moment in time.

As I type this entry, the 24 hour candle lighting vigil will commence in a few hours in the USA time zone.

candle light ceremony One thing remarkable about the US is that the U.S. Senate has, for several years, joined the Worldwide Candle Lighting remembrance by unanimously passing resolutions declaring the second Sunday in December as National Children’s Memorial Day. I wonder if the Philippines Senate would pass a resolution like that. I could try next year.

Here is a nice poem to read when lighting a candle for a loved one.

ONE LITTLE CANDLE

I lit a candle tonight, in honor of you
Remembering your life, and all the times we’d been through.

Such a small little light the candle made
until I realized how much in darkness it lit the way.

All the tears I’ve cried in all my grief and pain
what a garden they grew,watered with human rain

I sometimes can’t see beyond the moment, in hopeless despair
But then your memory sustains me, in heartaches repair.

I can wait for the tomorrow,when my sorrows ease
Until then,I’ll light this candle, and let my memories run free

~written by Sheila Simmons, Dallas, GA
In Memory of Steven Simmons
3-24-70 – 10-19-99

The goal of the Compassionate Friends is to provide a safe place for grieving parents, grandparents and siblings to remember their dead children without feeling self-conscious or apologetic for their emotion.

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About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.