Belly Dancing Mama and Daughter

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bellybells1.jpg I told my daughter , Lauren ” Did you know that [tag]belly dance[/tag] was taught by mothers to their daughters for easy childbirths?” She raised an eyebrow. I added, “At least you’re learning it now while still single“. Lauren rolled her eyes. She decided to tag along with me last week for belly dancing . Ahh, we had so much fun. After the belly dance session, she went to the “Girl Shoppe” at Market! Market! and bought me red hip scarves with coins while she got the purple for herself. This morning was our second session. The second time around is so much easier . Belly dancing reminds me a bit of the “hula” or “hawaiian dance” which was the craze for pre-teens in the late sixties. I know how to sashay my hips like a graceful hula dancer. But belly dance is different.

The dance’s movements teach you to focus on moving one part of the body, and make muscles and limbs toned yet flexible. One learns to control body movements, restricting them either to the upper or lower body. In “shoulder shimmies,” for instance, only the shoulders, arms and chest should move, not the waist or hips. Source

The hip scarves (belly belt) with coins are not really needed but it does help because the jingling sound gives you an idea if you are moving your lower body when you shouldn’t. So there I was, jiggling, wiggling, bouncing, shaking, twisting and gyrating to my heart’s desire. I had to put a lot of focus on the hips, waist, thighs, belly and arms. The hardest is when you have to shake your shoulders in tune with gyrating hips. In time, I will manage that step.

The “pelvic tilt-tuck” is something I didn’t learn in my first session. See, you thrust your pelvic forward and backward, then do “Egyptian arms” , where you sway your arms alternately up and down then working out your hips, thighs, butt and arms all together. Talk about multi-tasking! I got the “pelvic tilt-tuck” in my second session. The simple “hip circles” lets you step to the side and sway your hips in a circular motion thus exercising your hips and calves. I exercised my muscles that I never knew existed before.

To really enjoy belly dance, one has to let go of the “shy you”. Just allow the playful side of you to emanate. It’s so much fun that belly dancing mama and daughter will attend sessions in other Fitness First branches (Currently , belly dancing lessons are in The fort, RST Makati and Manila branches) every week.

The entrepreneurial spirit in my daughter laughed out ” if I don’t get a job after college, maybe I can teach belly dancing“.

Oh yeah, if you want to buy affordable belly dancing skirts and tops, I found one at “Ang Ganda Boutique”244-145 2/F Market! Market!, Global City, Fort Bonifacio. Tops can be as low as 450 pesos and the skirts can cost as much as 650 pesos. The nice thing is you can still haggle the price.

Oh yes.

belly dance teacher
Arcel Benson is our [tag]belly dance teacher[/tag] at Fitness First. ooh, you should contact her if you ever need private belly dance lessons in Manila. She is excellent. She was trained in Cairo, Egypt for 9 months. Her cellphone is +639263394207

Noemi Lardizabal-Dado (1388 Posts)

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  • I’m a fan of Shakira, which makes me wish there’s a belly dancing lesson here in Pampanga. 🙁

    Nice bonding session you’ve got there with your daughtie. Makes me think whether I could also make my Mom go with me if ever I find a gym that teaches belly dancing. 🙂

  • Alfa: Yes , my daughter is a fan of Shakira and that’s where she got the idea of belly dancing. It’s a nice bonding session. My daughter is an adult now so she’s not squeamish being seen with her mom. 🙂 I hope you find a belly dancing school

  • Toe

    That’s such a hip mom-daughter activity! That must be so much fun!

  • Good to know you’re into it. I always meant to go to one. Are the costumes expensive?

  • Toe: At least my daughter is not ashamed to be seen with me

    Ajay: the hip scarfs is 800 pesos at the “girl shoppe” in market! market!. That’s all one needs for the lesson. I don’t know hat other belly dance instructors requiire. But in fitness first, it’s a combination of dance and exercise.

  • Olga

    Hi Noemi! Reading about how you go about with Lauren, bonding like sisters rather than mom and daughter, made me kind of regretful I married late. I realize now the advantages of having children while one is still younger, so one could “grow up” with the kids, so to speak.

    I’ve been doing some computations here … by the time my 6-year old reaches Lauren’s age, I’ll be around 54! My spirit might still be willing to try belly dancing but would my creaking bones allow? 🙂

    Hope your girls wont wait for too long before settling down as I did. You wont want to see them attending preschool PTAs around the age 40! 🙂

  • Olga: I married at 27 and at that time I thought it was old. To make sure you are fit. Just keep your body healthy. Exercise regularly. 54 years old is not old. I have friends who are at that age and they are belly dancing to their heart’s desire.

  • Danah Lacson

    hi!I’m having a Moroccan theme debut and I would really love to have belly dancers to perform at my debut so I was wondering if maybe your class could perform at my debut?