Surviving and Recovering from Ondoy Flood Damage

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Of course, I never imagined the wrath of Ondoy as it poured rain in Manila. I arrived in Singapore that saturday noon and saw a twitter message from my daughter.

“Oh no, the flood is entering the house. and mom is not here”.

No matter, the age of your child, they still look for good old mom. Their dad was around to help out move things to the second floor. Never in our wildest dreams did we expect the floods to reach neck deep in the house. Our former residence in Magallanes got flooded once and it was just ankle deep so the kids were pretty much exposed to floodwaters in the house. This time it was far more serious.

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Our 3 cars submerged. Only 2 cars had insurance coverage for “Acts of God”.

Naturally, my first reaction is, “oh the furniture, the oven, the ref, the piano..”. I thought, what if the water rose up to the second floor? Oh Lord, I was asking my sister to help me get them out of the village. Luckily, the flood water subsided saturday night but it was still too deep to venture out and even for a van to deliver food and water. So many relief goods were mobilized but the delivery was futile without a rubber boat.

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this is not yet the peak of the flood waters. It rose to chin level.

My daughter described her ordeal:

I spent my Saturday afternoon and most of Sunday trapped in the second floor of our house with my dad, sister, helpers, and pets as the streets turned into rivers at the height of tropical storm Ondoy. To cope with it all, I tried to think of the wh…ole ordeal as a cool survival game where I become awesomer and awesomer the hungrier I get. Truth is, I was really quite scared that we’d be trapped there for days and that I’d end up eating my kitty out of desperation. But luckily, the floods did eventually subside. And thanks to our awesome relatives who managed to get us Sunday evening, my sister and I were able to eat a warm meal for the first time all weekend.

Looking at the photos makes me feel tremendously sad, which in turn makes me feel silly and bourgeois. I mean, we were perfectly safe; it’s not like we had to climb up to the roof and wait for help there. Besides, the only things we lost were furniture. But I still can’t shake off this weird sense of loss and survival’s guilt. I want beer.

dog
My family tried their best to move everything from downstairs, including Humphrey the dog. He’s never allowed inside, but he was surprisingly very tame and well-behaved.

i assured the kids that we can hurdle this. We have gone through the greatest pain ever, the death of my son. These are just material possessions that can easily be bought in time. I am truly grateful my family is safe yet feel sad that others suffered more. Being alive is all that matters.

I arrived in Manila early this morning and right now, I am staying temporarily at my sister’s house in Quezon City. My two daughters are with me but my husband is left behind to watch over our house clean up operations.

Slowly, I am picking up the pieces. I gazed at my home and it still looks good from the outside. It’s just a mess inside. I started to work on priorities, one step at a time.

1. Called car insurance if flood damage is covered. Two cars will be fixed through the comprehensive insurance. Mapfre Insurance is the best. Malayan Insurance sucks. Sometimes cheap insurance is not worth it. Read the fine line and check if “acts of God” are included.

2. Cleaning of the mud and debris is in progress. Things have to be dried so that molds don’t eat up our things. I have four people cleaning it now. The floors are clear of mud but so much drying needs to be done.

3. Called the service center of our Samsung Ref and La Germania oven to see if they can still be used and repaired. Service is being scheduled tomorrow.

4. Electricity is back but electrician is checking all outlets to make sure it is safe to use.

5. Food is hard to buy near our village so we have to buy it further away.

6. Checking if our home insurance covered flood damage. I am hoping for the best. Maybe the government will be kind enough to provide us with soft loans to rebuild our homes.

I am hoping the piano can still be saved. Among all the material possessions damaged by the flood, the broken piano hits hard. My beloved father bought the piano for me because he wanted my two girls to learn the piano. The girls feel bad that it is broken. I hope I can still fix it. Thye are poignant memories of my father.

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Yes , I am taking it one step at time. My neighbors are on the streets drying their furniture and discarding unusable items.

There is so much work to be done and as long as the refrigerator and oven is in place, we can move back.

The Ondoy devastation is indeed a tragedy but we have survived far worst in the past . I know in the face of adversity, we learn to be stronger and hopeful that our flood-damaged home will once be beautiful and cozy.

One thing we can learn from this flood:

1. Get your own rubber boat or “salvavida”

2. Never trust Pag-Asa forecast. Keep food, water, battery powered lights on standby.

What have you learned from Ondoy flood?

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You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.

  • Noems, dearest, thank you for giving us a peek of your post-flood thoughts and activities. Yes, charity begins at home — and so everyone is volunteering in any way they can, even at home.

    I might need permission to reprint a couple of photos for a poster I need to make here in the US for relief efforts. Please guide me re: who I can get some photos for consideration.

    As Bren Bataclan says it well in his “Project Smile:” EVERYTHING WILL BE ALL RIGHT!

  • Remembered the first and the last time flood struck our house at Olongapo. Di ko inexpect. Hay.
    .-= Rommel´s last blog ..Havaianas Giveaway =-.

  • Seeing those pics made me remember “Bagyo Frank” when it hit Iloilo last year. Luckily the on two situations, flood came during day time. If it were night, it could have been worst!

    We are survivors, and there’s always a reason for everything.

    Glad your family is safe. Take care.
    .-= Babsy´s last blog ..Manila Trip =-.

  • Ria

    I’m glad to hear your family is okay despite the damage caused by the floods. My thoughts and my prayers go out to you all.
    .-= Ria´s last blog ..How Else Can We Help? Dealing with Ondoy’s Emotional Aftermath =-.

  • Bim

    I’m happy all of you are safe. But the property damage really has to suck.
    .-= Bim´s last blog ..Spider-Woman Motion Comics =-.

  • hi noemi! the flat we are renting in UP village got flooded too! i hate floods because my family stayed in obando for some time. i am sorry to hear what happened to you. we are all disaster survivors now.

    i used to work in a disaster response agency. i never realized that i will be personally affected by a disaster when i left obando for good and closed my eyes and ears whenever i hear news about flooding in that area especially since my parents refuse to settle in another place.

    i now understand how a disaster survivor feel by now. the anxiety and fear that it is not impossible to happen again. but we are made of tough stuff so we can cope with this one and your are right that this will make us and even our families closer and stronger.

  • This brought memories of our Ormoc flood. I know how you feel about the piano, I hope you will be able to get yours fixed. As they say what matters is your family is okay, that you had a second floor for them to take shelter. It is going to be long and messy but eventually this too shall be a thing of the past. I wish you and your family well.
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  • I’m sorry to hear about the ordeal the flood has caused to your home but I’m glad to know that your family is safe. God bless.
    .-= Rach (Heart of Rachel)´s last blog ..Farewell Lola =-.

  • muddy waters pala ang sa inyo ano? at least with us it wasnt so muddy but it also reached chest-deep. we are now in a hotel and just today, we found a new house. my husband and kids dont want to return to our house anymore. traumatized sila.

    glad your family are okay though.
    .-= raqgold´s last blog ..Counting Our Blessings =-.

  • I’m glad to hear everyone is ok. Hang in there. Thoughts and prayer to all of you and the rest of the Filipinos.
    .-= Dexie´s last blog ..Helpful Sites For The Metro Manila Flood Disaster Relief/Rescue =-.

  • Hi noemi, seeing those pics really makes me sad, but the most important is that you’re all safe, it’s a lot of work, may God bless you and your restoration process.
    .-= an2nette´s last blog ..Typhoon Ondoy:The Aftermath =-.

  • Will

    Hi,

    Do you want to help Ondoy victims but you’re broke? Trace will donate money for you. http://bit.ly/aRpgS

    Hope this helps.

    Warm regards

  • ive learned that it is high time to do my part in rebuilding nature. i hope realizes the same and focus on environment saving activities.

    glad u’re safe. it’s good to see the pets are even saved.
    .-= Arvee´s last blog ..Real Life Engagement: Marc and Ging =-.

  • Hi Noemi,

    Sorry to read this. Saw the pics and it’s really sad. We too had water inside the house but not neck-deep. Some cabinets need to be discarded but nothing major.

    Glad that you and your family is safe. And I pray that we recover fast, together with our country.
    .-= kuku´s last blog ..Picture of Mikey Arroyo While Shopping for Wine At The Height of Ondoy’s Rage =-.

  • Thanks for your postings. We want to share a video about helping and volunteerism. Hope we can raise awareness on the damages and the requirements to rebuild the lives of the victims
    HELP / DONATE to Typhoon Ondoy (Ketsana) Victims (Manila, Philippines) Sept.26.09

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  • This kind of incidence may occur again so we should be very precocious next time.

  • Hi Tita Noemi. It should have felt so bad when your were in Singapore by the time the floods rushed in. I felt the same when I was stranded in my office while my family was stranded at home. But, I’m glad everything is getting better for you and for your family.

  • Hi Noemi, we were also a victim of typhoon Ondoy. We already evacuated our place. Unfortunately, until now, the whole Phase 7 of our village where our house is located is still submerged with thigh-deep flood.
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  • That was really a humbling experience Noems! We were lucky, too, because we weren’t home during that time. The bad thing is all our things under knee-deep got drenched. No one was there to move them to the second floor. Here are the lessons, I learned: http://mamaisworking.blogspot.com/2009/10/typhoon-ondoys-aftermath.html

    You are right, this too shall pass. Take care!
    .-= Meikah Delid´s last blog ..I Remember my Teachers Today =-.

  • mamai0607

    So glad to see that you’re all safe.

  • Hi Noemi, I am saddened what happened to your House, but still you are blessed kasi ang iba diyan sa Manila walang babalikan. I hope this time nalinis na ang bahay mo. Things are just worldly needs like oven, cars etc.and you can still buy them! But we have to take good care of our life until God wants us to go. Again what happenned are WARNINGS from God, maybe, people are just thinking for the care of this life, NO MORE TIME FOR GOD! Thanks ang place niyo hindi totally lumubog. As I see the pictures, nice ang lugar niyo! Lastly, People today should be watchful! We dont know what is going to happen tomorrow? If it is not flood, earthquake, pestilence, typhoon, robbery anything could happen! Please read and forward my site to others – http://www.mathelmacecilia.multiply.com baka makatulong to prepare people spiritually. . . Take care!
    .-= Cecile Yap´s last blog ..what people should know =-.

  • Mindanao. At first in the news you can’t really tell how intense it was, Ondoy, was mark only as a tropical storm by PAGASA. I was watching the news from my office tv then, but as the news about the rain that it didn’t stop and places I personally know in the metro flooding waters things are becoming more serious than ever. I followed the news every time there’s flash report to either station and see how this great ordeal really caught us unaware until the hit.

    And for all these, we in Mindanao could only hope for the best in the people of the capital. There were different groups now mobilize to raise funds, aids of different kind for the victims. we may not be around to actually help but rest assured we are one with you in prayers.

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