Daily affirmations through the years with Louise Hay
Beautiful and meaningful affirmations uplift my day. Losing my beloved Luijoe, my precious child brought me into such deep sadness and negativity that all I could think was of dying…. Read more »
Category Archives: Recovery Tips
A loving-kindness meditation: 4 wishes for my children
“May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you feel safe. May you live your life with ease.” I am not a very religious person but I believe in… Read more »
Unspeakable grief : The death of a child #JusticeForKian
The most unspeakable grief is losing a child, a death of a child… and what more to allegations that Kian Loyd Delos Santos “died amid allegations that he was framed… Read more »
Love your Inner Child
So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us. ~Gaston Bachelard Photo credit: mindbodysmile.comA young blogger once asked me “what should I settle now before… Read more »
This is my new normal
Finding my new normal after a loss of a child was something I figured out along the way. Being a blogger is my new normal because I would not have… Read more »
A letter to my son in heaven
Dear Luijoe, It’s been 17 years . 17 years today… without seeing your impish smile, without receiving wild flowers with a note “I love you so very much, mama” without your gentle… Read more »
Five parenting lessons my beloved son taught me
It’s that time of the year that I declutter my home. The library which is located in my home office is often filled with books because my family members are… Read more »
The Blame game: Filipino version can be summarized in 2 words “Ikaw kasi.”
“Ikaw kasi!” Olivia blurted out to her friend Rose as they assessed the outcome of a project presentation. Prior to the big day, each of them had two different takes… Read more »
Practice forgiveness: The ability to forgive is one of the greatest gifts you can ever give yourself.
Forgiveness sets you free from resentment’s confines; it breaks down the walls that anger builds and negativity reinforces. I was struck by a facebook post from a friend. She shared… Read more »
Easter Sunday reminds me of my beloved son’s message of eternal life
I wrote this many years ago but I want to share this story again because Easter Sunday is very special. “If I die, Mama, will I be alive again?” Luijoe… Read more »
The Art of “Thank You” and “I’m Sorry”
A simple ‘thank you’ can save a life, brighten up a bad day, and even change the world. It makes the person hearing it want to return the favor, pay… Read more »
Are You A Victim? Real or Imagined?
“I am not a victim. No matter what I have been through, I’m still here. I have a history of victory.” – Steve Maraboli Do you feel trapped or… Read more »
Aspire to be the best me in 2017 and beyond
“Aspire, break bounds. Endeavor to be good, and better still, best.” – Robert Browning I feel good about 2017. After all, it is my year. 2017 is the year of… Read more »