When Kids Hear Their Parents having Sex

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Parents, are you sure your kids don’t hear you when you are having sex?

I came across Lauren’s forum a few years ago on “have you heard your parents having sex” and their thoughts on their parents having sex.

We learn a lot from our children. It never occured to me that our kids think we have no sex life. Just because we have reached our 40′s doesn’t mean sex life is over. I found their candid answers quite helpful and amusing. Remember, these are teens’ opinions from all over the world.

The forum question was:

I have never heard my parents have sex, and I’m pretty sure they don’t anymore. What about the rest of you? Do you ever hear them?

The replies from Lauren’s online friends who were then in their teens:

1. No. hehe. But I think it’s sweet that parents still have that passion and affection for each other.

2. I think it’s horrid enough hearing them talk about it…

3. i don’t really want to imagine parents having sex. but i hope that when i reach their stage, i would still have sex. it sucks to have no sex life.

4. Oh Lordy… I have walked in on my dad and my mom…a few years later.. I walked in on my dad and my stepmom..and I’ve heard them many, many… MANY times. There should be a law or something..

5. I’ve heard them before, really shouldn’t sleep in the bedroom right beside theirs…

6. lol. well, i would be glad that they still have sex. it’s so good they’re so loving. but i really don’t want to think about it.

7. as their kids, there are some things we just don’t need to know! and it just seems perfectly fine when we do it, no?

8. we have double standards when it comes to sex.

9.Never heard them.
Never walked in on them.
Never want to.

I’d like to thank the people who made our walls as thick as they can be for having never experienced such a horrific thing. And I knew my parents were having sex because there’s a 12 year gap between me & my next sibling!

10. I walked in on my mom and dad…and I saw more than any child should. I have walked in on my mom and step-dad as well. Funny thing is…I’ve only walked in when they were making babies in the living room. I still have the scars. Oh, and I’ve heard them a few times to. So yeah, I know my parents are still “active”.

11. i hope i’ll still be living a life full of passion and romance at that age. i wouldn’t want to be all dried up like some grandmas.

12. No, my mother and father aren’t very affectionate. And my mother sleeps with my younger brother rather than my father. sheesh. I don’t want to witness the act, but they could at least treat each other like they’re actually a couple, no?

13. i don’t think my parents do it anymore either. but one time when i was younger, i swore i caught them one saturday morning because i just busted into their room to go sleep next to them.. but i think i’m blocking that memory into some dream i had or something, haha.

14. I used to hear them .. when I was little. Not anymore. On a popular radio station called K92.. well.. popular over here… They had a special called, “Grandparents Do IT To” it was halarious.

15. I ‘ve heard it. No big deal. Frankly I’m more disturbed when I don’t hear anything. My parents aren’t aliens and I like to be constantly reassured of that fact.

16. Yes I have it was embarrassing they obviously didn’t know I was home. It was horrible my mom was talking really dirty.

17. I’ve heard my dad and my stepmother but never my mom and stepfather. I was going downstairs in the middle of the night to get a magazine I had left and I over heard them and I just scurried upstairs before anything more happened that I didn’t want to see or hear. I laughed to myself though thinking… dad still has it going on… good for him! LOL

Besides, there will be pleny of payback when I bring my girlfriend/wife home for the holidays some time in the future.

18. Nope, never heard my parents doing it…. They probably do it when I’m not around.

Now it’s my turn to say my piece on this. First of all, I don’t think my kids have ever heard us having sex. Reply number 18 is more like it. Hehe. Second, the only encounter close to sex was when one of my daughters overheard her dad say to me “it’s been awhile since we ****” (that four letter word verb…shocking) . My daughter was on her way to my room at that time. I forgot my reply to Butch but I hope I wasn’t talking dirty. Not knowing she overheard her dad, I wondered why she pushed the door and tugged my hand , “Let’s now go to the salon”. Then at the salon, “mom it’s really traumatic to hear dad asking you to have sex”.

I just had to laugh “at least we are still loving to each other. Don’t you like that?”

My daughter pouted “it’s very disturbing. Sex is for young people”

I smiled “Sex is a loving expression for couples, young and old. Especially married couples. Just learn to be cautious when you approach the door to our room”

I often wondered why my parents required us to knock at their door. Now I realized that they also had an active sex life.

Yes children (as I know I have young readers), your parents still have an active sex life. How active? It depends, of course. Just because we are reaching 40 or 50 does not exempt us from having a healthy sex life. And the older one gets the better it becomes.

I know “ewww.” *nods*

What have I learned from their replies?

1. Parents, it’s fine to espouse sex education to our kids, if you’re comfortable with the topic.

2. Sex education doesn’t mean talking about our sex life to them.

3. It’s alright to show affection to our spouse . At least our kids know we are loving to each other.

4. It’s not okay for our kids to hear us having sex. We have to learn to lock our doors or ensure thicker walls to our rooms, and other privacy measures as some kids can get shocked.

This post was inspired by Dine aka Sexy Mom based on a conversation we had yesterday at iBlog 3 that sex is still a taboo topic.

Photo via 10000besides.com


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  • Bryce Sunduk

    Sublime – Wrong Way

    Annie’s twelve years old in two more she’ll be a whore
    nobody ever told her it’s the wrong way
    don’t be afraid with the quickness you’ll get laid
    for your family get paid it’s the wrong way
    I gave her all that I had to give
    and I’m gonna make it hard to live
    soggy tears runnin’ down to her chin
    and it ruins up her make up and never wanted
    A cigarette pressed between her lips
    but I’m staring at her tits it’s the wrong way
    strong if I can but I am only a man
    so I take her to the can the wrong way
    the only family that she’s ever had
    was her seven horny brothers and a drunk-ass dad
    he needed money so he put her on the steet
    everything was going fine until the day she met me
    ya happy are ya sad wanna shoot your dad
    I’ll do anything I can it’s the wrong way
    talk all night try to make it right
    belive me shit was tight it was the wrong way
    don’t run away if ya wanna stay
    ‘cuz I ain’t here to make ya..whoa no
    it’s up to you what you really wanna do
    spend some time in America ha dub style
    Jon Blondell solo
    she’ll give you all that she got to give
    but I’m gonna make it hard to live
    big soggy tears rollin’ down to her chin
    and it smears up her make up and never wanted
    so we ran away And I’m sorry when I say
    that straight to this very day it was the wrong way
    she took a hike don’t matter if you like it or not
    because she only wants the wrong way
    I gave her all that I had to give
    she still wouldn’t take it..whoa no
    her two brown eyes are leaky like a sive
    and it still ruins up her make up and never want give
    Sublime (1996)
    annie’s 12 years old in two more
    she’ll be a whore, nobody ever told
    her it’s the wrong way. don’t be
    afraid with the quickness you get
    laid for your family gets paid it’s
    the wrong way.

    i gave her all that i had to give,
    i’m gonna make it hard to live. salty tears
    running down her chin and it ruins
    up her make up i never wanted,

    a cigarette, pressed between her lips
    but i’m staring at her tits, it’s the wrong way.
    strong if i can, but i am only a man,
    so i take her to the can, it’s the wrong way.
    the only family that she ever had
    is her 7 horny brothers and her drunk-ass dad.
    he needed money so he put her on the street,
    everything was going fine until the day that she met me.

    happy are you sad, wanna shoot your dad
    i’ll do anything i can the wrong way.
    we talked all night and tried to make it right
    , believe me shit was tight, it’s was the wrong way.

    dont run away if you wanna stay,
    cause i ain’t here to make ya’,
    it’s up to you what you really wanna do,
    spend some time in america, dub-style

    she’ll give you all that she got to give,
    but i’m gonna make it hard to live.
    big salty tears rolling down to her chin
    and they smear up her makeup i never wanted

    so we ran away and i’m sorry when i say
    that straight to this very day it was the wrong way
    . she took a hike, don’t matter if i like it or not
    because she only wants the wrong way.

    i gave her all that i had to give,
    but she still wouln’t take it, oh no.
    her two brown eyes are leakin like a sieve,
    and it still ruins her makeup i never wanted

    Annie’s 12 years old in two more she’ll be a whore
    Nobody ever told her it’s the wrong way
    Don’t be afraid with the quickness you get laid for your family gets
    paid
    It’s the wrong way
    CHORUS:
    I gave her all that I had to give
    I’m gonna make it hard to live
    Big salty tears running down her chin
    And it ruins up her make up
    I never wanted
    A cigarette pressed between her lips
    When I’m staring at her tits
    It’s the wrong way
    Strong if I can but I am only a man
    So I take her to the can its the wrong way
    The only family she ever had
    Was her 7 horny brothers and her drunk-ass dad
    He needed money so he put her on the street
    Everything was going fine till the day that she met me
    Happy are you sad, wanna shoot your dad
    I’ll do anything i can it’s the wrong way
    We talked all night and tried to make it right
    Believe me shit was tight
    It’s the wrong way
    So run away if you don’t wanna stay
    Cause I ain’t here to make you
    It’s up to you what you really wanna do
    Spend some time in america
    Dub style
    (CHORUS)
    So we ran away
    And I’m sorry when I say that to this very day
    It was the wrong way
    She took a hike it don’t matter it I like it or not
    Cause she only wants the wrong way
    (CHORUS)

  • Bryce Sunduk

    Sublime – Wrong Way

    Annie’s twelve years old in two more she’ll be a whore nobody ever told her it’s the wrong way don’t be afraid with the quickness you’ll get laid for your family get paid it’s the wrong way

    I hope the parents feel proud when their little girl gets pregnant in High School ages 14-17. Let’s ruin life.

  • Bryce Sunduk

    Pronatalist I hope you feel proud when you see all those under aged girls pushing around their babies. The fun is over for them.

  • Bryce Sunduk

    Well I’ve been thinking about it and my advice to you poor, children is to get a pair of ear plugs and sleep with them in your ears. It’s the best advice I can think of I don’t know what to say. Reading this stuff brings tears to my eyes that. Small minds think alike and there isn’t much you can do about it. Maybe if your feeling brave get a tape recorder. Record it and call the police on your parents. The cops will probably take you away and put you in a foster home. If your parents Truly Love You That Will Teach Them A Life Lesson Which They Will Never Forget. But it would probably make life better or worse. I wake up each morning and this

    Serenity Prayer

    God Grant Me
    The Courage To Change
    The Things I Can
    The Strength To Accept
    The Things I Can Not Change
    And The Wisdom
    To Know The Difference

    I say this To you “Have HOPE I Believe In You, That You CAN Do Anything & Never Give Up”

  • Caitlin

    Hi guys! Well it’s like half one in the morning and I had a big argument with my mum earlier about her and my dad. You see the first time it happened I was ten we were in Blackpool on a wee holiday and I had a great day and then we went back to the hotel and my mum and dad had a few drinks. I had went to my bed early and I remember they woke me up it was just one room so it was really loud they had obv just came in and my dad had settled down and he was asking my mum to wank him off and stuff like tht and I remember it like it was yesterday I cried for hours and was totaly I’ll for the holiday. Since then anytime I hear them, which is not often I have to admit but I’m up for hours after crying. It’s usually when they have had a wee drink. I hate everything about it and I had considered bringing it up for ages but never had the nerves. But today my dad was out at the hospitality at the football and I knew he was gonna be drunk when he came in so I kinda panicked and me and my mum are really close and my dad too but on nights like this I hate them. So my mum new I was worked up about something and asked me and I totaly flipped out told her everything and she went crazy. I was already crying but she was just screaming you make me feel cheap and how do you expect us to have a relationship and she ran away down the stairs. I was in complete shock I just cried. My dad still wasent in and my brother was panicking. She doesn’t understand how angry I get and then feel sick afterwards. I panicked when my dad came in because he saw I had been crying and my mum told him about the argument but he still tried having sex with her but she wouldn’t not after the argument so he stormed off and I went down to see my mum who was sleeping. I just don’t get why they do it I mean I know it’s natural but we stay at our grans alot and they could at least do it then ae? I’m totaly scarred for life and I’m only 12 I mean everyone talks about it at school but I can’t listen but I feel totally guilty now for bringing it up but I had to get it out if my system. I just wish that they could understand.

  • Leah

    My parents’ bedroom is right next to mine, and the house we live in has thin walls, so thin that I can sometimes hear my neighbors having it off, so it’s understandable that I would sometimes hear my parents having sex. I just wish they would be less loud and more secretive about it. They could at least have the decency to wait for me to turn my bedroom light off, when I might at least be asleep, instead of up reading. Plus, my mom has off some days when I’m in school and my dad works from extremely early in the morning until around noon, so there’s plenty of time for them to do it then, when I’m not around. It’s just uncomfortable to hear them going at it. I know it’s natural for them to do it, they love each other, and I know sex is an enjoyable experience and all, but they could be a little bit more private about it.

  • Ash

    I hear my parents having sex. like i hear EVERYTHING. >.<. they have all kinds off sex toys and everthing. it gives me chills… for some reason it makes me hate them. i am posting this comment becuz right now they are.. help..

  • I Don’t Know

    I really don’t think my parents “do it” any more. I am in the room next to them and the wall is pretty thin. I can actually hear my dad talking on the phone. But my parents never show affection and I know thy love each other but it seems to me they are like best friends.
    I was talking to my bet friend and her parents are very open about sex; they have told her they do it and she and I were talking to them. They think that a marriage can only last if you have sex.
    I don’t think this is true though. Bub I still wonder if my parents do. I hope hey don’t and I know that sounds selfish but I would cy if they did and I thinknparents can still love eacher withou having sex.
    But I also would still love my parents if they did.
    To tell you the truth maybe I don’t want to know

  • Meredith

    Same Here! I am only 12 years old but from 2 schools with lots of kids, and parents that are very open about talking about this stuff…I pretty well know every sex term..and all of the above. I live in a 3 story house. I am in the basement and my parents are upstairs. Of course, yes, they do have sex! Their room is RIGHT above mine. I can never sleep at night and when they expect me to get up at six in the morning to go to school after having to listen to them get it on till 2 in the morning, its really frustrating and its making me fall behind in school because I always fall asleep in class. I don’t confront them about it. But I have walked in before on accident. I don’t think they noticed. It makes me so mad that they know I have to listen to them everynight. It makes me really just like hate them when they have sex. I hope they enjoy their freaking trip to Vegas tomorrow. Ughh! I am just soo mad that they cant understand about this… It really makes me mad. I know school is really important…. But it is just sooo embarresing to confront them about this. :/ What should I do? HELP!

  • Mickey

    Since my dad found out that my stepmom has been playing around he’s had sex with her 11 straight nights that I know about, the old man been giving it to her real hard cos I can here every moan and groan, every thrust and every orgasm, heard him tell her “I’ll make you toe the god darn line lady” looks like she can barely walk straight in the monings now!

  • Chelsey

    I Dnt Think Parents Should Do It If The Have Children There. If The Child Doesnt Hear It Then Thats Fine But When Yu Have Young Children You Shuldnt Do It. It Should Be Done While The Child (Children) Are Asleep , Its Not Fair In The Child And One f The Comments I Read Was That It Wouldnt Be The Same If A Parent Heard Their Child Having Sex Next Door They Would Barge In And Demand Answers And Stuff . Its Not Fair In Life And Parents Should Realize That !!!

  • Mickey

    make that 14 nights, I think he’s trying to frigging kill her1

  • Jayden

    I heard my parents having sex many times when I was 8 and wondered what the hell was going on

  • Alice

    I hear mine regularly- every 2 weeks and they call it “smoochin’” and talk about it like planning nights IN FRONT OF ME, a 13 YEAR OLD and 2 4 year olds. Makes me so f***ing angry because they don’t even try to hide- cuz they don’t even think about how their kids are scarred by this sh*t.

  • http://forums.delphiforums.com/innovate1 Pronatalist

    Reply to Alice:

    I don’t see a problem with your parents talking about planning to make love, as even on the Cosby Show, the parents talk about going upstairs to do you-know-what. Be glad they still love each other, and be happy that you might even get another baby brother or sister. I also think more families ought to be more relaxed about the natural family growth, and be more eager to let their families grow quite large, welcoming however many children God would allow them to have.

    Sex shouldn’t be something to be ashamed of, if people will be responsible to be married first, and to provide for and love all their children that may naturally result.

    People should have some reasonable level of modesty, but that seems to vary from household to household, and I see the parents being responsible for setting the modesty level, as to whether bedroom and bathroom doors should be shut, and so on.

  • understanding mom

    Ok, first of all…all the twelve year olds out there. I have been in your shoes. I remember it very vividly. It was at night. We had all gone to bed and I heard strange sounds coming from my mom and her boyfriends bedroom. I knew what they were (I didn’t understand them) but I was so angry and disgusted. I heard my mother moaning and groaning and I got out of bed, went to their door and yelled…”Get Real!” lol. I was 10 when that happened. I am 30 now and I feel really bad that I did that because I realize that what she was doing was completely natural. We have two children…11 and 10…and our daughter busted us twice (with the door locked AND a two story house AND being as quiet as possible) after they went to bed. Don’t stand outside the door and listen kids! Stop thinking that parents are old. People in movies “do it” all the time. They are not 12 years old! They are not always 18 years old! They are all age ranges! It is sad that so many children are angry about sex. I was too. I’m not anymore. It’s wrong to be mad about your parents having sex. If they are still doing it…then they are happy! It’s true. My parents haven’t done it in sooooo long, that I’m actually worried. You build up chemicals in your brain that can cause you to stress out and SEX is a release of those chemicals. When you 12 year olds actually start to go through puberty then you will forget all about your parents having sex and it pissing you off. You cannot control your parents and if you think telling them about it will make your life so much better then do it. But don’t expect them to be so nice to you once you reach a point in your teenage life where you start to get feelings (which are totally natural) that make you want to do it too!!

  • ryan m.

    hello, im 14, lol, i went to a hotel a couple months ago, my parents were, well uknow, and i was like eww?ahh?whaa?im scared. i dont like it, just because i have a stepmom. anyway, now it seems like every night they have ‘it’ even though the dont do it much. i read a post, like the same thing as meh… parents do not realize wat it does to childs. lol

  • ryan m.

    thank you, lol, im 10 2… same thing with me..

  • Joey

    I’m 17 and I’ve had the same girlfriend for four years (yesterday was our 4 year anniversary actually :D ) and she better still want to have sex with me when we’re married and 40, 50, 60, 70+ years old.

    :D

  • http://www.trulyrichmom.com Tina aka TeacherMama

    Hi Tita Noemi! :) Just read this post. May I share it on my blog? :) Of course, with due acknowledgement. :) Just some parts. :) Thanks po!

    (When we were young, my parents would lock their door a lot too! hahahahaha)
    .-= Tina aka TeacherMama´s last blog ..Where To Go This Weekend – Events Around Manila =-.

  • Halo

    God I’ve heard my parents having sex loads of times and Im frickin hearing them right now, I hate it and when I do hear it I just hope my step father gets a bent D**k!!! Ive seen my mum and one of my step fathers watching porn while having sex once when I was a child, I’ve also seen his porn collection. And now my new stupid step father walked in on me in the tiolet last year at night and I saw everything right after he had sex with my mum. I hate seein or hearing them, it makes me feel so uncomfortable and I just wanna ran far away every time. Ive had alot of bad experiances in my life that have left me scared and this by far never ever helps!!! Besides the fact I really dislike my stepfather, Im not racist or anything but hes a stupid, old, ugly pommy bastard (im part pommy aswell = proves im not racist just descriptive). hearing them infuriates me to the point where I think nasty thoughts in my head, like I wish he’d get frost bite on his D**k and it’d drop off. I HATE HEARING THEM GOING AT IT, AND EVERY TIME I TRY TO TALK TO THEM BOUT IT AND SAY I FIND IT UNCOMFORTABLE HEARING IT CAN YOU PLZ BE ALITTLE SOFTER I GET A SERIOUS YELLING AT BY MY MUM, AND THEN I FEEL LIKE PIUNCHING MY MUM IN THE MOUTH. Why should I be expected to do this sort of stuff if they wont. Im begining to hate my parents more and more because of their feral habits and a**wh*le attitudes!!!!

  • Greedo

    Thankfully, I’ve never walked in on my parents doing it. At least not past third base. I still shudder whenever that memory comes up. Yes, the door wasn’t locked and no we never had the custom of knocking on doors because my parents were separated and my mom never did see the need to hook up with another man and neither of us ever did certain personal things in our rooms that warranted a knock on the door. I respect my mom for that. Anyway, the earliest memory would have to have been when I was around 9 and my folks were still together and in the same room as I but thinking back on it now, they may have simply been kissing. Didn’t see anything and I only heard smooching sounds. That’s cool and in a way adorable, I guess. I hope that was all that was going on because if not…
    It was the second time in my life that made me WTF at the time and it involved the aforementioned unlocked door and third base. My parents were way beyond separated since my dad had been divorced from his second wife for some time. And as someone who was raised to have good ethics and morals… lol I MAD

  • Robin Tsong

    Had an argument tonight with a friend of mine who likes to brag about being the man who gave his 2nd wife her 1st orgasm. She was so thrilled that she expressed herself very loudly – so much so that the youngest of her 3 children (who was 6) pounded on the bedroom door because it sounded like she was being hurt. He’s inordinately proud of this and goes on to relate that they had noisy sex several times a day. Since “sex is beautiful and natural”, he thinks that the kids were perfectly fine with this. So many of the comments above thoroughly disprove his theory. My heart goes out to all the children whose parents are so totally clueless about their children’s feelings….. With adult perceptions and experience, one does experience sexual knowledge totally different than children. Children do not appreciate having sexual knowledge forced on them, their sleep disturbed night after night, etc.

    I’m sorry for all you children that are suffering with selfish, inconsiderate parents – promise to yourselves that YOU will be a better parent, because you will remember how you felt and will break the cycle with your kids….

    May you all find peace!

  • iyer

    good. cant forget the scene. i also had the same experience dear

  • iyer

    no problem u cant control it dear. its their right. u can enjoy the liveshow as i also had the same. aftersometime, when i feel they dont care, we see them doing sex, then why should we feel sorry. i was eagerly waiting for the liveshow. enjoy

  • iyer

    there is no problem seeing the parents doing sex as long as they didnt care of ur seeing it, i had so manytimes that chance and they also know i was seeing and the best part was my dad above 50 and my mom below 40 and they had sex to the extreme level and i enjoyed the show many a times and my dad is very particular of doing sex everytime my mom got her period clear and make her pregnant.

  • Erin

    I actually googled this site out of desperation because I just heard my parents doing the deed. Yeah, I know it’s natural and beautiful and a gift and everything, but that doesn’t dismiss the fact that it’s downright disturbing. I don’t have a problem with them having sex, but they’re really loud, they do it a lot and they don’t even close their doors. But it’s done it late at night, when my brothers and I (all under 16) are all asleep, which is at 11:30 or so. I am not a very good sleeper so I always wake up. Awkward. It’s traumatizing sometimes how careless they are.

  • O Huddlestone

    right to try and make them stop just walkin while there having it

  • hello i love u

    hello

  • Freddy Freb

    my mum and dad do it every week i see them doing it somtimes

  • Anonymous

    i dont know why im doing this but to distract me, i have to tell somone. im 10 years old and parents are doing it right now but im to scared to tell to be quiet. i have before but all my mom sayys is that thier tring to make a baby. I DONT CARE DO IT WHEN IM AT SCHOOL OR SOMTHING! can you help me?

  • http://twitter.com/georgie_hoblyn Georgie Hoblyn

    I hate it when my brother works nights and my sister is at her boyfriends because I KNOW! then i can’t get to sleep but know i have to or else! I’m twelve and first heard them on holiday in our villa. It has the living room/kitchen with the two other rooms = bathroom and my bedroom coming off. They slept on the sofa bed. So one night i decide to play my ds all night and heard mum screaming it out not even trying to be descrete. I was sick in a plastic bag i found because i couldnt get to bathroom without seeing them! I hate my mum always making remarks and talking about it! Anytime something comes on tv immitating it or any remarks i cry and am sick! I hate my mother for it because my i know my dad isn’t into it but my mums addicted! :’(

  • Anonymous

    i know how you feel, im 13 and we live in a flat and my room is right next door to theres, but its my mom and her boyfriend and it makes me sick,i think my mom is addicted to :’(, she tried to talk to me about it but she thinks its fine :( ive hear her with lots of diffrent men and its horrribe :( carnt they just do it when were not in :’(

  • Catherine Grace Wiechern

    Im not sure why im doing this i just need to express my anger.My Parent’s room is right next to mine in my house we have very thin walls.They have been trying to break a world record or something because they have been going EVERYNIGHT for 2 and a half weeks.i have told my friends about it but they just say “eww”or”haha shame!!” i cant sleep at night anymore I also have a sleeping disorder so it takes me like 2 hours to fall asleep when i go to bed at 6.30 my parents go to bed and have thier gross fun 30 minutes afta me!! I CANT SLEEP AT NIGHT NO MATTER WHAT I DO!!.I am a 12 yr old girl and I have always found refuge in my mum, someone to help me grow, sive soothing words of wisdom when i need them…shes was the only one who could calm me down after a hard day at school with the bullying and falling behind on my school work…but now i try not to talk to her because when ever I do I remember the txts she sends my “dad”, or the sickning noises she makes at night, now there is no-one to talk to.I am going suicidal she was the only one…

  • Samuel Jones

    There is a line that needs to be drawn here. Parents should be respectful of their children and try to keep it as quiet as possible. I’ve never really faced this problem with my parents. But my wife has. As a child her parents would have sex while she had company at any time of the day and be very loud. If you’re going to do it, try to keep in mind it makes children uncomfortable. And if they have friends over, try to contain yourself. They don’t want their friends hearing it.

  • natalie.stamper

    I’m not mad my parents had sex. I’m mad that they didn’t have enough respect for me to do it quietyle and out of my sight. Don’t assume that everyone who heard their parents have sex were standing right outside the door. I was in the same bed when I heard my mom and her BF do it. Hell, they could have got up and went into a different room. We lived in a two bedroom house. You also can’t tell people how they should feel about certain situations. If a man came up to you out of the blue and slapped the shit out of you, should I tell you that his anger was natural and you should get over it? Pissing and shitting are natural yet that’s done discreetly behind closed doors, why can’t sex? Parents know how to be quiet. I hate to say this but I seriously think some parents are so self absorbed that the fact they are causing their children trauma is turning them on. I’m 23, married, and out of the house now so I’m not trying to control my parents. I just want to know why they didn’t have enough respect to keep me innocent until I was old enough to understand sex. Yeah, people do it in movies. Does that make it anymore right? Hell no. Movies are not reality. When I reached the age of wanting to have sex, I had enough common sense and respect for my parents to do it away from them. So if a young person developing these natural feelings can have this respect for their parents, don’t you think parents should set an example and do the same?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ally-Ladouceur/100001980376303 Ally Ladouceur

    yea, but my parents are differnt, they know i want them to stop n’ stuff…but they dont care, not even about me,,, just sex is all they care about

  • Anonymous

    OK
    Now let me ask you KIDS as you say! something, how old do you think we should be to STOP having sex??
    One of you said it is sick for them to have sex, well let me tell you something!!!!!!
    It is not sick, because if they were fighting all the time or coming in at 2AM drunk as hell then you should be pissed! but as long as you have 2 loving parents enjoy them!
    some kids don’t have that those kids that don’t would love to see there parents happy and living life happy! I Do and we enjoy it everyday!

    Grandpa

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_7POKOXIEJQEQKKS33BDNCVP3RU Sabrina

    i dont care if my parents are doing it as long as its only in there room and im not home

  • Greg AwesomeFace

    oh my god…what are you people? some kind of trolls? reading your reply’s makes me even madder that you try to blame US for getting traumatized almost every night. I’ts not the process that is called sex that is traumatizing us it are the person(s) who are doing it, like your mom or dad or both.

    It sets out a reaction in our mind that mostly triggers bad emotions. for example if 2 random people were having sex like next to me i wouldn’t really care but right now my mom and some guy that is suppose to be her boyfriend is having sex right now and i am so furious atm, she even insisted on meeting her ”boyfriend” and i insisted not to since i might not be able to hold back and break something from him.

    I am not easy to get mad but thinking that my mom doesn’t even care that i am in the next room really gets me mad, having my headphones on so loud it hurts my ears,and i really am not planning to go deaf before i turn 20, and yes ofc its a beautiful,natural,gift of god/life or w/e but those things should not be thrown into your childrens face that early.

    that you wer bred in some kind of trolltank and not feel these emotions is not our problem but dont come here and pretend the problem is us. i am 18 and i am still very bothered about this so i did something about it which is moving out i cant w8 till that day
    i am even having problems at school about this i mean yh i give them props but seriously from 22:30 till 4:15?? I CAN’T SLEEP!

  • Anonymous

    even i am 13 i am also adopted
    my mom told me tht she was never pregnant in her life
    she is such i lyier i saw her pregnant pics
    my parents meet in collage and had a luv marriage
    she adopted me wen i she was 43 so now they r over wid there menopose so they hav sex evey single day and once my dads friend and my dad touched my moms personal parts i feel so digusting this inciedent happed last week they were drunk and peeped into the key hole and they watch pron movies my mom is a wet nurce she feeds other peoples kids once even my maids

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