How deep is your love?

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And I know your eyes in the morning sun
I feel you touch me in the pouring rain
And the moment that you wander far from me
I wanna feel you in my arms again

And you come to me on a summer breeze
Keep me warm in your love and then softly leave
And it’s me you need to show ….
How deep is your love?


Oh yes love, we celebrate love every way we can. Milestones are valued.

“How deep is your love?” by the Beegees hit the airwaves in 1977 but it was the song of the season when Butch and I became steadies on March 7, 1978. I played the music on our way to our photo shoot with the best wedding photographers, Mimi and Karl. It was just natural that we chose the UP campus (where we met) for our silver anniversary photo shoot and the celebration of our 32 years as a couple on March 7. Dragging my two girls to join us, the two hour photo shoot was sweet and poignant. I love my husband for being such a good sport knowing he poses stiffly for photos. That’s how love works, I guess.

As he wrapped his arms around me, I loved how the soft breeze cooled the scorching sun hitting us between the branches of the tree. I clutch on to my heart-shaped pendant where a photo of our beloved Luijoe is engraved. “Luijoe is with us, too…in our hearts”. We smile at each other. We are a complete family as we pose, laugh, twirl around and smile for the cameras.


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It is natural for Butch to be sweet and romantic because that’s his personality but he can also have his bad moods. I cautioned him to “Please be in a good mood for this photo shoot”. Butch took the day off just to clear the day of any worrisome work which might adversely darken his mood.

It is difficult enough to get a schedule with Mimi and Karl on weekends, the day my daughter is available. Fortunately, she resigned from work just recently and scheduling was easier on a week day. It helped that she is an avid fan of Mimi and Karl. You have no idea how difficult it is to coordinate activities with two busy girls. (Lauren writes on behind the scenes of the photo shoot.)


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We both hold our daughters’ hands as we walk around the campus where their parents met 32 years ago.

They are a witness to our love, our pain and second (or third) wind in marriage.

Noemi Lardizabal-Dado (1352 Posts)

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.


About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

You may contact Noemi (noemidado @ gmail.com) for speaking and consultancy services in the following areas: Parenting in the Digital Age (includes pro-active parenting on cyber-bullying and bullying) ; Social Business ; Reinventing One’s Life; and social media engagement. Our parenting workshop is called "Prep to Prime (P2P): Parenting in the Digital Age (An Un­Workshop)" P2P Un­Workshops are conducted by two golden women in their prime, Noemi and Jane, who have a century’s worth of experience between them. They are both accomplished professionals who chose to become homemakers. This 180­degree turn also put them on a different life course which includes blogging, social media engagement and citizen advocacy. They call their un­workshops Prep to Prime or P2P, for short, to emphasize the breadth of their parenting experience. They tackle different aspects and issues of parenting ­­ from managing pregnancies, prepping for the school years of children, dealing with househelp, managing the household budget, to maximizing one’s prime life and staying healthy through the senior years.

  • Roy

    Happy anniversary Miss Noemi!

    I love that Bee Gee’s song!

    No, I love all the Bee Gee’s songs!

  • Congrats! Having a lasting marriage entails a lot of hard work. 🙂
    .-= Rowena Wendy Lei´s last blog ..Blogging and motherhood… I am still a mom above all! =-.

  • aww 😀 happy anniversary and may you have many more years together!
    i love mimi and karl 😀 i’m sure your photos would turn out beautifully!

  • hello po ma’am noemi! Happy anniversary to you and your beloved husband. May you have more years of sharing the love, care and understanding to each other.

    I would like to express my sincere thanks for the inspiration that you shared to me and my wife jennifer as we had the same experience with you. We had a little baby boy named Raphael and he was 1 month and 3 weeks ago when he left us to join Our Creator. It was a hard time for us to cope with the loss of our baby. We shared the good times and the bad times together and it strengthen us even better. With the help of our family, friends in the community and through your blog, it inspires us to move on with our lives and reach out to everyone and be an inspiration to them also.

    Keep it up and God bless! – eric 🙂

    ps. please feel free to visit my blog site at ericurbiztondo.wordpress.com 🙂
    .-= Eric Urbiztondo´s last blog ..Missing my Baby Raphael… =-.

  • Happy Anniversary Miss Noems. You have an avid reader here! More blessings and God bless!