A daughter is life’s greatest gift to me

Mar 28, 10 A daughter is life’s greatest gift to me

Posted by in Milestones, Parenting Tips

My beautiful girl turned 24 years old, three days ago and I didn’t get to share it with you. I should have written about it but I was too preoccupied with my surgery the following day. Every time I go to the hospital, I always prepare a notebook that lists passwords and the location of important documents. You never know,...

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Mommy power is in our hands

Feb 24, 10 Mommy power is in our hands

Posted by in Current Affairs, Milestones

“Because I think the Filipino is worth crying for”. David Briscoe, February 25, 1986 I felt my baby tumble with joy inside my belly as the announcement from the radio blasted out that indeed Cory Aquino was our new president. My baby is now a 23 year old lady turning 24 next month. It’s been 24 years since my joy...

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Love and Affirmation

Jan 22, 10 Love and Affirmation

Posted by in Milestones, Parenting Tips

A flurry of activities, eye bags, and a dire lack of sleep is a daily fare the past two weeks. I thought to myself “The husband is not pleased with my busy schedule”. As you might know now, I am the project editor of blogwatch.ph, a new media initiative for May 2010 elections. To add to that, I got hired effective...

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Coming of Age Party

“Do you have rose petals?” The florist sounded a bit too excited when he asked “For your bed?”. I could have smacked the nosy florist but I took everything in stride. “No, it’s for my daughter’s hoity-toity grown-up party”. The nosy florist continued ” Oh she is scattering petals...

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Graduation Blues

Mar 29, 07 Graduation Blues

Posted by in Milestones

Lauren gave me a couple of her [tag]yearbook photos[/tag]. Tomorrow is her [tag]graduation day[/tag]. All week long, she has been wailing… “I can’t believe I am graduating!” I assure her that we are just as shocked. Shocked that another milestone marks her parent’s lives. Shocked that we are getting...

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The Tuition Fee that Blogging Paid

Mar 14, 07 The Tuition Fee that Blogging Paid

Posted by in Milestones, Parents & Children

Half a million pesos or so later, my husband finally gets to visit Ateneo de Manila campus today. Can you imagine that? Sure he has seen the campus through the windshield as he drops Lauren to school but to actually step down and take a stroll…err no. My daughter’s college came up with this “Congratulatory...

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Today is May 27

May 27, 06 Today is May 27

Posted by in Grief Recovery, Memory Lane, Milestones

Six years ago on May 27, 2000 TODAY….six years after on May 27, 2006 at the Loyola Memorial Park, Sucat “TEARS ARE THE PROOF OF LIFE” “How long will the pain last?” a broken-hearted mourner asked me. “All the rest of your life.” I had to answer truthfully. We never quite forget. No...

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Real Estate dreams

For one hour, the fountains stared at me or rather, I stared at the fountains of Ayala Tower 1. Out of boredom, I took a picture. Click. ” I felt like a stage mother all over again. Waiting for my daughter as always. One of the top real estate companies in the country accepted her for a summer internship program . So there I...

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Losing weight after 40

Mar 08, 06 Losing weight after 40

Posted by in Fitness & Health, Food & Dining, Milestones

According to this article, on Childhood obesity problem: “Global fattening” poses an equal threat to global warming, according to [tag]obesity[/tag] specialists. Overeating has resulted in 20,000 children suffering from so called “adult onset” or type-2 [tag]diabetes[/tag], not previously seen in children,...

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My First TV interview

Mar 07, 06 My First TV interview

Posted by in Grief in the News, Milestones, Press Mentions

I woke up in tears this morning. I dreamt that I was kissing and embracing my son, Luijoe. In my dream, he smiled and smirked as I smacked him on the lips and cheeks. Waves of happiness filled me. Joy lifted my heart. I felt like a white balloon, floating in bliss. Then “POP POP” I woke up and of course realized...

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The Launch

After being online for the past 10 years, I felt it was time to start a blog. Not that blogs are commonplace but I felt I have a lot to share especially with regards to my grief journey and the transformation that has taken place in the past year. I chose joy over sadness. It is said that grief is inevitable but misery is optional....

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