I enjoy puttering around the house , being a neat freak dictatorial mom or Mrs. Handyman. Butch enjoys strolling at the grocery or supermarket ensuring our cupboards are filled to the brim. The weekly grocery used to belong to my territory until four years ago. For some reason, grocery shopping is therapeutic for him. I just let him be because I don’t enjoy looking at high priced consumer goods.

While I ordered construction materials at the neighborhood hardware store, Butch is doing the groceries.

Through the years, I accepted the fact that my husband will always be a sort-of-house-husband-homemaker. I admire his ability to combine both father and mother roles. I believe I play both roles too. He still markets for our weekly grocery and cooks our sunday meals occasionally. I let him be because it gives him so much pleasure. Last Sunday, it took him 2 hours to do the grocery because he kept comparing products versus prices. He chatised himself for taking that long. It made me laugh because he didn’t realize he was in the supermarket for 2 hours.

These days, I find myself out of the house more than it ever has been in our almost 25 years of marriage. My multi-tasking talent comes into play here. I never expected to be this busy but I am loving it. It took awhile for Butch to get used to my hectic routine but it’s heart-warming to know that he is supportive and is proud of me. The extra income helps especially since we lost all our 3 cars to Ondoy flood.

Money needs to be earned, and the grocery needs to be done. It doesn’t matter who does what. Though our roles as husband and wife have changed through the years, our primary role is to love and support the other.

I feel loved. Speaking of love, what gift should I buy for V-day?

About Noemi Lardizabal-Dado

Noemi Lardizabal-Dado, widely known as @MomBlogger, brings nearly two decades of experience in social media, specializing in content strategy and public advocacy. As a columnist for The Manila Times, she regularly shares her insights on technology, artificial intelligence, and cybersecurity. Her deep understanding of the digital landscape dates back to 1995, and she has a strong track record of applying her expertise for public good. Notably, Noemi volunteered as "Robotica," in 1996 leading internet safety initiatives for World Kids Network, underscoring her long-standing commitment to responsible technology use. Her blog, aboutmyrecovery.com received various awards such as the Best Blog, 1st PUP Mabini Media Awards, Best Website (Blogs Category) 9th & 10th Philippine Web Awards.

2 Thoughts on “Our roles change

  1. vday gift for him? why not a gift cheque sa supermarket LOL

    here in our house, I do carpentry works din, he is never likes carpentry unlike me who gets high inside a hardware store 🙂
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