momandme.jpgThe day Lauren wrote her essay on “Generation Next, Generation Net” 11 years ago, I had no idea I’d end up being a blogger just like her. During those days, diarist or online journallers were relegated to the twenty something and below. Moms did not blog. Our kids must have been so influential in inspiring moms like me to blog. I am not alone. Take a look at JAngelo and his mom, Dine or Aaron Roselo and his mom blogging at AMomandMore.

Having read Lauren’s blog for many years sublimally prepared me for the launch of my blog 10 years later after she started in 1996. Let me count the ways:

1. Content (Good and Original) is King.

Good content shows the blogger’s own personality and flavor. Her story-telling style made it very interesting for her readers of all ages. Good content built a strong readership which she continues to enjoy until the present time. The power of stories to connect, captivate and persuade, creates a great way to grab hold of a reader.

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country homeThe green landscape just took my breath away as we drove on to the countryside. The gust of wind sent a shiver down my spine. I love this place, I thought as we inspected the Sta. Rosa property in Laguna. The fresh countryside air is the best gift that I can ever give my family. Three family members are asthma prone and this is the ideal family home for us, as I hugged my husband. The year was January 2000. While my husband and I poured over the layout of the house, Luijoe was a bit distressed to see that he had his own room which I labeled “Luijoe”. He took my pencil and wrote Luijoe in OUR bedroom. “That’s where I am going to sleep”, he showed an impish grin.

Oh well, he is not ready to move to his own room. I looked at my husband.

Luijoe ran to the cul-de sac and romped on the greenery beside the house as it was slowly being constructed. The move to our country home was scheduled for April 2001.

The plan was simple enough. Lauren and M will finish high school somewhere in the south of Manila while Luijoe would study in Don Bosco at Sta. Rosa. When the girls are in college, they will live in dormitories and drive home for a weekend stay in our country home.

Destiny had other plans for us.

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Every time I am invited to a new media event, I seek M’s opinion. “Do you think so-and-so event is worth attending?”. And if M is really gung-ho over it, she’d go “mom, it’s an excuse to go out of the house”. See, I don’t want to waste my time in an event if the product/service won’t add intrinsic value to my blogs. I could make better use of my precious time by working on my passive income-generating sites. So far the new media events of the past week were all fun, hip but too expensive.

1. Philippine School of Interior Design Graduation Exhibit dubbed as ““Forty, Filipino, and Fabulous”
interior_design 076.jpgLast Friday was the press preview of the Philippine School of Interior Design (PSID) Advanced Class of 2007 graduation exhibit dubbed as ““Forty, Filipino, and Fabulous” which is mounted in cooperation with the Chamber of Furniture Industries of the Philippines (CFIP). You can watch this exhibit starting September 29- October 31 , at the Paseo Center, Paseo de Roxas cor. Sedeno st., Salcedo Village, Makati City. If you’re in the lookout for an interior designer, you might be able to choose from among the graduating students exhibiting their work from the 19 booths. My favorite was this bathroom called “Salapid” which is a representation of the modern Filipino couple’s sanctuary. See, the problem with a His and Hers bathroom is that if your hubby takes too long to use the bath, you end up waiting for hours on end. The solution is to get inside the bathroom with him, lounge on this “modern interpretation of the sulihiya” chair and relax. View the 19 booths through the Photos of the ““Forty, Filipino, and Fabulous” Exhibit

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Please join the survey on Filipino Bloggers (this is the last one, promise!)

My daughter and her groupmates are a group of Psychology undergraduate students from the University of the Philippines, Diliman. For their final study in Psychology 118 class (Field Methods in Psychology), they would like to explore the blogging phenomenon in the Philippines. To that end, they are asking your help to fill out this survey that will help them understand what motivates you to blog, how blogging has helped you and how much of yourself is present in your blogs.

They need 250 bloggers by Wednesday.

Qualifications:
1. Must be a Filipino by blood or citizenship
2. Must be residing in the Philippines
3. Must own and maintain a personal blog

They would like to assure you that they will respect your privacy, and will render all results anonymous. All blog URLs will be deleted after this study is completed. At the end of the survey, you have the option of receiving the survey results.

If you have any questions about this survey, please email them at: sikolohiya118@gmail.com

Once again, please join the survey on Filipino Bloggers.

Thanks for your help!

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Photo Hunters theme this week is Plastic. I know I should be posting a photo of a thing that is made of Plastic. Instead , I chose an I am not Plastic canvas bag from the Not Plastic Project Launch I attended two months ago.

I am not plasticI often use my “I am not Plastic” bag, an earth friendly bag when I am out shopping at flea markets or bringing some extra stuff for the gym. This Not Plastic Project resusable bags as you can see from the photo is a 12″ x 16″ x 5″ cotton muslin carryall with an inside pocket and the catchy statement, “I Am Not Plastic” printed on one side, and Not Plastic logo on the other.

In the Filipino slang, “I am not Plastic” means “I am not a hypocrite”.

Does that statement speak of me?

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In my last post, Manolo Quezon mentioned that “Everything is political, and it all begins with sex.”. I don’t claim to be an eloquent writer as the great Manolo but due to the recent issues on BoyBastos.Com allegedly owned by [tag]Mark Verzo[/tag], I feel I need to say a statement or two.

Sorry folks, but pornography is here to stay. You can write about porn, watch porn daily or host a porn site…but there are two things one needs to learn from the perils of [tag]pornography[/tag].

1. Education is the key.

  • Educate your kids on the dangers of the Internet.
  • Educate parents (most important!).
  • Educate lawmakers, law enforcers and their staff.
  • Teach lawmakers and law enforcers how to handle the Internet as a medium.

Like I wrote in my earlier entry on Lauren, a young internet user in 1996, I made it my business to explore the online world a family affair. We educated ourselves on the wonders and dangers of the internet. Now if you don’t believe that, it’s your problem not mine.

2. Watch out for that part of Republic Act 9208, The Anti-Trafficking of Persons Act of 2003, which punishes ““advertisements” or ““propaganda” in the internet as acts that promote trafficking in persons:

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Blogging has been so good to me. Blogging has brought me so much, more than I ever imagined it to be that I want to give back to the blogging community. It doesn’t matter what the sour grapes say about certain bloggers (including myself) in the blogging community but chilling with bloggers is really fun! What a weekend. I got the chance to mingle and talk with bloggers of all ages. Who says that bloggers are only interested to party and eat out or attend new media events ? Oh my, you will be surprised. We love to talk non-stop! Let me count the ways that you might learn from my weekend with some bloggers:

1. Focused Group Discussion

For the love of my daughter, I gathered five bloggers for a focused group discussion for her Psychology 118 study over at my house for a Friday night dinner. It was such a short notice and knowing young bloggers, their friday night often gets fully booked. Am I glad that Dine, Shari, Juned, Rico and Sasha took time off from their busy schedules for a round table discussion on why bloggers blog. Since it’s an academic study, I can’t give out much details on the discussion but Juned’s Talk and Dinner and Rico’s Why are Bloggers Great for Focus Group Discussions? will give you an idea.

It might interest you to know that I have the same reasons as Juned on why I write in my blog.

 

1. I blog to point things out. Anything worth pointing both tho beautiful and not-so-beautiful, the exciting and the mundane; A perfect ice crystal or the drip-drop and sloosh of the monsoon as it makes its way to the house.

2. To chronicle events. To record things for posterity and probably more i importantly to record events from your own perspective.

3. To move people or a group a desired way. It could be political and then again it could be not. The important thing to remember is the personal need to motivate, convince and a maybe even inspire.

4. To satisfy the Ego.

M needs 5 to 7 bloggers for a Focused Group Discussion- Part 2 on Wednesday, September 12. If interested, please SIGN UP HERE

2. Bloggers’ Kapihan 1 Blogging Basics

I arrived at around 2:00 PM at the Philippine Science High School last saturday. Feeling lost, I called Abe Olandres knowing he was going to be around since he was a speaker. Oh my, we were both surprised. Yuga was still in Makati because he was not sure if he was supposed to talk that afternoon. It’s a good thing I called. He made it all the way to Quezon City in 30 minutes. The topics and speakers for the afternoon were:

Some Interesting tidbits of their talk:
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Manolo says that “Everything is political, and it all begins with sex.”

  1. A lot of people will say it won’t matter. The more you say, the greater the chances you will say thing that matters.
  2. Considering the opportunity , don’t leave it to us. Do your part also. It may not matter to Filipinos but it will matter to others outside the Philippines.

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Yuga warns that blogging is not a racket. It took him two years or more to get to where he is right now. It’s not that easy. He emphasizes some points:

  1. Focus on a specific topic
  2. Blog to share to or influence people
  3. It is not the writing but in the message.
  4. Earning from your blogs follow the same business model as Inquirer.net except that blogs earn on a smaller scale.

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Bikoy has been blogging for the past 7 years so he is quite a role model for student bloggers. He gives tips to student bloggers:

KNOW WHAT YOU’RE SAYING

1. Be prepared to face up consequences because of what you write.
2. Be prepared for confrontation.
3. Deleting your blog entries can be futile.


TRY TO BE VISUAL

1. Don’t limit your audience to your friends or schoolmates
2. Tendency to talk about school routine in a mundane and monotonous way
3. Take pictures to help readers, to visualize what you’re writing.

LINK UP

1. Student blogger unions
2. Don’t limit your audience to people within your social circles.
3.More than raising page ranks or blog rnarks, it’s raising awareness

GO OUT

1. You can only blog so much if you confine yourself to the four
corners of your classroom
2. Seek new experiences, Enrich your experiences as a young person.

CHALLENGE

1. take student blogging beyond the stereotyped teenage diary or
journal writing.
2. Blogging more representative of a community of young Filipinos, our
interests and aspirations.

3. Blog and Soul Movement

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(Photo from Aileen Apolo

I signed up as a volunteer for the Blog and Soul Movement initiated by Jayvee, oh yes, the same Jayvee who got attacked for being a blog elite or mafia or mob! Whatever! They don’t even know what runs inside the heart and soul of this blogger. Anyway, the movement is now run my volunteers who believe in the goals of the Blog and Soul Movement : (i) Blogcentric; (ii) Skills enhancing; (iii) Fun and (iv) altruistic. After the Bloggers Kapihan, I drove over to Serendra for a Blog and Soul meeting with the volunteers. This time, we discussed on the future activities of the movement. Just watch out for the announcements. They will surely tickle your imagination. Most of all, it’s going to be fun.

Lastly, bloggers might be interested to know that my friend, Jove Francisco, a news reporter (and a blogger too) of ABC Channel 5 has a new portion in the SENTRO news called Sidetracked every 9:30 PM:

Sentro’s new segment: SIDETRACKED — a portion that serves as a round up of what’s happening in the world wide web, among other stuff or areas that will be featured in the future. In the first edition, Jove Francisco –me, hehehe— discussed the return of Malu Fernandez and the quick response of the Philippine Blogging Community. So who did we quote? It might be your blog! There’s also a follow up about the now famous beauty pageant incident involving Miss Teen South Carolina. Plus other news links. The segment is named SIDETRACKED because the concept is for our reporters to continue covering their respective beats but from time to time get sidetracked by anything of interest and newsworthy. Tonight, it was my turn and the internet SIDETRACKED me.)

If you missed the past episdoes of SIDETRACKED, Jove added youtube videos in his blog.

What have I learned about my weekend with bloggers?

1. Whether there is a blogging elite or not, It’s your attitude and actions towards your fellow that defines what you are.

2. Age is blurred when chilling among bloggers.

3. Bloggers can either be exhibitionists, voyeurs or both.

4. Bloggers love to talk and the non-bloggable chit-chat is even more interesting than the blog entries.

One of these days, I am going to host a blogging 101 especially for mommies. Now what would mommies want to learn about blogging?

youngblogger.jpgLauren told me to scrounge around for her photo as a 10 year old using the computer because it was needed for a magazine article. As some of you might know, Lauren started an online journal (not called blogs then) on December 1996 so the photo had to be around that time. Oh no! It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack. For days, I poured over stacks of photos because I have not been organizing them for the past 12 years. I finally found the photos of her in various poses with the computer. My geeky little Lauren.

Lauren was 9 years old while M was 8 years old when I had an internet connection at home. Between the 2 girls, Lauren used the internet a lot more than M. My internet service provider in 1995 was Virtual Asia. For 500 pesos a month, I had 15 internet hours. Geesh, it was terribly expensive to get wired during those days. The internet at home was mainly used for email purposes as I wanted to save my precious internet hours. One summer day in 1996 , 9 year old Lauren got bored and demanded to go online to search for penpals. I foresaw the need to strike a balance for the wonders of the internet with the responsibility for accountability, self-discipline, and safety. The best defense I had was to make exploring the online world a family affair. Together, we surfed and discovered two kid sites , the kidscom.com and kidpub.com. What caught their interest in kidscom was the graffiti wall that served as a chat room but it wasn’t in real time. The kidspub was a fun place to submit writings. Lauren was raring to get her creative juices started with the kidspub. The thing was they wanted her to submit the articles in HTML.

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ceramic fondueFor the month of September, the theme for the Pinoy Moms Network Fam Pics is Potted (anything in a pot). My entry is about my Ceramic Fondue Pot. I gave it as a Christmas present last year to my husband since he is such a cheese lover. The first time I encountered Cheese Fondue was at a Swiss restaurant in Lucerne. While my sister and I dipped and swirled our bread into the cheese in the pot, a group of yodellers went a yodelling in the background. For me the yodelling sounded like nonsense but I guess it was used as a method of communication between mountain peaks, and later became a part of the traditional music of the region.

Tonight called for the Cheese Fondue pot again since it’s my daughter’s birthday and she’s just as crazy over cheese.

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I am joining Nick ‘s Renewed Boycott Against Manila Standard Today.

Here it is, our stand, because [tag]Manila Standard[/tag] Today has chosen to hide behind their term ““protocol” and issue a pardon to their most beloved columnist for all The Filipinos to see. This is a call to boycott, for the irresponsible behavior of Manila Standard Today, they have chosen to pass up the option of doing the right thing, and essentially show their true colors and the standards they are upholding.

Do not go to their website, do not buy their paper, and anything that they write. Unless it is a declaration of firing [tag]Malu Fernandez[/tag], it will fall on deaf ears.

Incidentally, Daily Inquirer wrote about this latest boycott campaign including Anton de Leon’s entry on Malu Fernandez who is based in Dubai. Apparently, the Filipino Channel will interview him today about the renewed boycott campaign and the OFWs sentiments.

Yes I know that we should move on to other important issues like Justice for Cris Mendez but sadly, I still see a lot of hits coming into my blog because of the Malu Fernandez article. The Malu Fernandez issue refuses to die because she was not sincere in her apologies. The mere fact that she is still with Manila Standard speaks for itself.

If you want to participate in this renewed boycott against Manila Standard, just read this entry and grab the badge for the boycott campaign.

Hope you can join us.

Edit – September 6, 2007- ABC 5 Jove Francisco featured some blogs in “Sidetracked”

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