Holiday Blues- Sad, Lonely and Depressed

Tis the season to be jolly…fa-la-la-la-la. Right, it may be a season to be jolly for most of us but there are a few out there who experience the holiday blues for so many reasons. I can see it in the emails I receive. I am not a counselor but for some reason, [...]

Filed under: Grief Education

Misa De Gallo or Simbang Gabi

Three thirty in the morning
Wake up, he said.
Let’s go.
Bells tolling
In the distance
Calling us.
Walking briskly
in the dark
With my chattering sisters
And brothers
Shivering
I pulled my coat close to me
Against the chilly air.
Four a.m.
Struggling to keep my eyes open
In a church
smelling of candles
packed with people
Praying fervently
in Cebuano
This is torture, I thought
Let this be over soon.
Sacrifice, my father whispered
Preparing for [...]

Filed under: Filipino Culture, Memory Lane

Rudy Project? Rudy Who?

I always like to discover the person behind a family business. Who are the people running it? What makes it tick? What sustained the family business to continue on? I had the opportunity to chat with the charming and amiable Cristiano Barbazza the global president of Rudy Project and son of Rudy, the [...]

Filed under: Business & Marketing, Video Blogging

Holiday Rush in Divisoria

Christmas shopping is never complete without a visit to Divisoria to buy wholesale prices on Christmas wrappers, ribbons, and christmas decors. The sights and sounds are quite an experience. I also love the bargains on gift items especially bought on wholessale prices. This time around, my husband wasn’t too comfortable with me shopping alone after [...]

Filed under: Shopping

Classic Filipino Christmas Carol

Kasadya Ning Takna-a (”How Joyful Is This Season”) is a classic Christmas Carol and my favorite Filipino Christmas Carol. I still remember the lyrics by heart because I used to sing this upbeat Christmas song as a little girl while carolling with my friends in Cebu.
Kasadya ning táknaa
Dapit sa kahimayaan.
Mao ray among [...]

Filed under: Entertainment, Filipino Culture, Memory Lane

The Family That Cooks and Blogs Together

My dad often told me to look at the silver lining when the going gets rough. An old quote says that “THE OPTIMIST sees the doughnut; the pessimist sees the hole.” Two wonderful opportunities came out of the family’s financial challenges in 2004: (1) More Family Meals at home and (2) Butch [...]

Filed under: Parenting & Family, Site News

The Candle Lighting

At 7:00 PM, The Compassionate Friends held the 11th Worldwide Candle Lighting event at the Ateneo Loyola Schools.
Our Candle Lighting Service is done with love,
A tribute to our children who have gone on above.
We light our candles so others will know,
We remember our children and we still love them so.
We will continue to cherish [...]

Filed under: Grief in the News

11th Worldwide Candle Lighting Event

A candle signifies life and light and so the burning of a candle brings light and life to the memory and to the hearts of the bereaved. It is not that a candle has any magical or mystical powers as it is not the candle itself that heals. The lighting of a small candle [...]

Filed under: Celebrations, Grief

The Internet Hoax and Suicide

I first read Megan Meier’s suicide from my husband’s entry Online Hoax Leads to Suicide of Teenage Girl. The sad story starts with an online friend, Josh Evans who Megan never met in real life. Josh became mean to Megan and told her “The world would be a better place without you.”. Sobbing, Megan ran [...]

Filed under: Grief in the News

A Magical Christmas Tradition

The Christmas tree is up. Hundreds of tiny lights are dancing around the trimmed Christmas tree. The girls’ Christmas stockings look perfect on the wall while pretty garlands line around the staircase. That should about signal the start of Christmas Season for my girls. But no… According to Lauren, it’s the baking of the [...]

Filed under: Celebrations, Kids, Memory Lane