Dec. 11: Worldwide candle lighting shines for our children

Dec 12, 11 Dec. 11: Worldwide candle lighting shines for our children

Posted by in Family Celebrations, Grief

Tweet Although pretty presents under the twinkling lights of Christmas trees are quite exciting, it is the warmth and love of family and friends that make the holiday season so memorable. Yet it can be a painful time for those experiencing the recent loss of a loved one. I don’t know how I lived through the first Christmas...

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A Treasured Christmas Tradition: Gingerbread man cookies

Dec 09, 11 A Treasured Christmas Tradition: Gingerbread man cookies

Posted by in Arts & Creativity, Family Celebrations

TweetSparkling and dazzling lights dance around our Christmas tree. Hundreds of tiny lights run along the garlands like waves stretching all the way to the second floor. The girls’ bright red and green Christmas stockings hang on the garlands, just waiting to be filled up with yummy candies and goodies on Christmas day. These...

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Holiday Blues- Sad, Lonely and Depressed

Dec 08, 11 Holiday Blues- Sad, Lonely and Depressed

Posted by in Family Celebrations, Grief Education

TweetTis the season to be jolly…fa-la-la-la-la. Right, it may be a season to be jolly for some of us but there are a few out there who experience the holiday blues for so many reasons. I can see it in the emails I receive. I am not a therapist but for some reason, more and more visitors email me asking for advice for all...

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Where is God?

Nov 05, 11 Where is God?

Posted by in My Family, Parenting Tips, Spiritual

TweetThe Kingdom of God is inside you, and all around you, not in mansions of wood and stone. Split a piece of wood, and I am there. Lift a stone, and you will find me. –”Stigmata” Like all Catholic schools, Religion was taught as early as First grade. I can still remember my book with images of clouds, and a man...

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Remembering Luijoe on All Saints Day

Nov 01, 11 Remembering Luijoe on All Saints Day

Posted by in Family Celebrations, Grief

Tweet Did you know…the universal symbol of remembering is a candle? Did you know…letting go of our loved one, but honoring their memory with a symbol is a ritual that brings healing? Sometimes words are not there to express what we want to say, but a symbol that brings meaning to us can help in the grief process. We...

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Halloween Through the Years

Oct 31, 11 Halloween Through the Years

Posted by in Family Celebrations, Memory Lane

TweetThis Halloween post was posted originally on October 26 2006. It was my dear husband who reminded me to dress up the little girls into witches for Halloween. “Halloween?” I thought Halloween was only done in the Western countries. ” Yes you have to dress them up as witches”. As a little boy in the late...

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The Sound of Music, a classic family musical

Oct 14, 11 The Sound of Music, a classic family musical

Posted by in Entertainment, Memory Lane

Tweet “The hills are alive with the sound of music…” is so much a part of my childhood memories ever since I first saw the “Sound of Music” movie in 1966. I was nine years old watching a movie for the first time. The movie fascinated me simply because I came from a family of 7 siblings where music...

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How to Smile (for photos)

Oct 07, 11 How to Smile (for photos)

Posted by in Memory Lane, Recovery Tips

TweetFor World Smile Day, let me share this old post from four years ago. Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. ~Mother Teresa “Why do you manage to look so nice in all the photos? cried Chats, Annamanila , Dine as we played with Dine’s macbook. It was Chats...

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A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails

Aug 27, 11 A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails

Posted by in Memory Lane, Travel

TweetA woman is the full circle. Within her is the power to create, nurture and transform. ~ Diane Mariechild ~ Rica and I go back when we were little kids romping around the school grounds of St. Theresa’s College Cebu. I thought we graduated in the same high school. It dawned on me that we had not seen each other for the...

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Celebrating life

Jul 14, 11 Celebrating life

Posted by in Family Celebrations

Tweet“Though life is not as it was before, And never will be again, Our memories are much richer, Than if love had never been.” – Author Unknown Luijoe would have been 18 years old yesterday (July 13) but in my mind and in my heart, he will always be that cute and impish six year old boy. I cannot imagine him as...

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You are what you tweet

Jul 10, 11 You are what you tweet

Posted by in Bloggers, Family Celebrations

Tweet“Most bloggers who rise above the clutter are quite often prolific –they work hard, not just writing content but networking, engaging in Social Media and more.” Darren Rowse, problogger.net Let’s face it – Social Media is pretty much a part of our lives. Whether one is young or prime time like me, those...

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Celebrating Philippine-American Friendship day

Jul 02, 11 Celebrating Philippine-American Friendship day

Posted by in Family Celebrations

Tweet July 4 marked Philippine Independence day at one point in my childhood days. The move to June 12 confused me for some time until I knew more about Philippine history. I pondered over Ambassador Harry K. Thomas Jr. remarks at the US Independence day celebration held at the US Embassy reception hall. Today we celebrate not...

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Celebrating the Rizal in me

Tweet“It’s a useless life that is not concentrated to a great ideal. It’s like a stone wasted on the field without becoming a part of any edifice.” Jose Rizal I braved the rains and drove all the way to Fort Santiago in my period costume to celebrate Jose Rizal’s 150th birthday. Celebrating Rizal’s...

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“Any man can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a dad”

Jun 19, 11 “Any man can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a dad”

Posted by in Family Celebrations, My Family

Tweet“All fathers are invisible in daytime; daytime is ruled by mothers and fathers come out at night. Darkness brings home fathers, with their real, unspeakable power. There is more to fathers than meets the eye.” – Margaret Atwood “A father is always making his baby into a little woman. And when she is a woman...

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The true beginning of a life of meaning

Jun 17, 11 The true beginning of a life of meaning

Posted by in Family Celebrations

Tweet My 54th birthday happened three days ago but I only made my birthday wish yesterday night. I wished for good health , love and peace. Something I always do every year. Hope springs eternal. It is good to be thankful for what I have in life and what I have accomplished. As I get older and wiser (of course), I look at my...

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LGBT kids and teens: Tomorrow Will Be Better

Jun 15, 11 LGBT kids and teens: Tomorrow Will Be Better

Posted by in Beauty Over Age 50, Family Celebrations

TweetWe are all different, but we must embrace and respect our differences. We must come together through the very emotion that makes us human: love. US Ambassador Harry K. Thomas Jr.at at the LGBT Pride Month Reception What a long but productive day. I treated my family for lunch in celebration of my 54th birthday because I...

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The wedding vows

May 22, 11 The wedding vows

Posted by in Family Celebrations

TweetOur wedding was many years ago. The celebration continues to this day. ~Gene Perret Our friends, the beautiful couple Alma and Mario Miclat share the same wedding date- May 5 with Butch and I. The difference is the Miclats just celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary while we just had our Silver anniversary last year. ...

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Mother’s day greetings from a distance

May 08, 11 Mother’s day greetings from a distance

Posted by in Family Celebrations

Tweet“Mothers hold their children’s hands for a short while, but their hearts forever. ” My children are not with me right now. That’s okay because I have known all along they will live their own lives one day. Distance does not prevent them from greeting me on Mother’s day. Marielle sent me a lovely...

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